Alabama state legislature overwhelmingly passes bills protecting IVF

Both chambers of the Alabama Legislature overwhelmingly passed legislation Thursday protecting patients and medical professionals from civil and criminal liability for in vitro fertilization treatments.

The move comes after the state Supreme Court ruled embryos are considered children , causing panic among IVF advocates.

The House bill passed by a vote of 94-6, and the Senate bill passed 32-0.

Filed by Terri Collins, R- Morgan County,  HB 237  reaffirms Attorney General Steve Marshall's statement that the state has "no intention of using the recent Alabama Supreme Court decision as a basis for prosecuting IVF families or providers."

It's companion bill, SB 159 , also seeks to protect patients and providers. Both bills now go to the opposite chamber for review. Collins said they are aiming to get the measure approved and to the governor on Wednesday.

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"This would at least keep the clinics open and the families moving forward," Collins said, per the Associated Press .

The state Supreme Court in February ruled  that frozen embryos are "extrauterine children" and legally protected like any other child. The decision led  many providers in the state to halt IVF for fear of facing possible homicide charges when handling embryos during the IVF process. The ruling received national opposition from both Republicans and Democrats.

The passing of the Alabama bills arrives a day after a rally in support of IVF outside the statehouse and the same week the Biden administration dispatched its top health officer to Alabama to meet with IVF families .

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Alabama high court decision creates national waves

Alabama's February decision that frozen embryos should be legally treated as children had impacts across the country.

U.S. Senators brought a bill Wednesday under unanimous consent that would have enshrined IVF protections for parents and doctors, but it was blocked by a Republican Senator from Mississippi.

In Florida, a bill that critics say would have bolstered fetal personhood legal arguments was shelved Monday as Republicans rushed to support IVF.

The Alabama Supreme Court ruling put  U.S. Senate Republicans in a tough spot , as indicated by a memo that went out three days after the decision. National Republican Senatorial Committee executive director Jason Thielman cited the overwhelming support for fertility treatments, even among conservative voters, in the memo that encouraged senators to come out in support for IVF.

He called the ruling "fodder for Democrats hoping to manipulate the abortion issue for electoral gain," going on to say, "there are zero Republican Senate candidates who support efforts to restrict access to fertility treatments."

Alabama Sen. Tommy Tuberville has  spoken out in support of the state's Supreme Court ruling , emphasizing that the U.S. Supreme Court's decision that overturned Roe v. Wade put the decision back in the hands of the states.

His stance on IVF, however, was a bit more murky as he condemned the hospital's move to end IVF treatments.

Former President Donald Trump also  called on Alabama lawmakers to reverse the decision  and spoke out in support of IVF.

Contributing: Trevor Hughes, Rachel Looker, Riley Beggin,   James Call ; USA TODAY; Associated Press

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Struggling with infertility can make you feel alone and isolated and it’s often difficult for family and friends to fully understand what you’re going through. Whether you’re looking for advice about your fertility challenges or you need support as you start in vitro fertilization (IVF) or another treatment approach, there are infertility support groups specifically designed with you in mind. Look to these groups for support and compassion during your fertility journey.

Why is support so important during fertility treatments?

Fertility treatments aren’t just physically demanding, they can also take an emotional toll on you and your partner.

Joining a support group, whether in-person or online, can help you realize you’re not alone. There are groups for men and women of all walks of life with members that will help you feel comfortable and understood.

How to find local infertility support groups

At The Fertility Institute of New Orleans, our staff members pride themselves on always being there for the immediate needs of our patients. We are happy to point you in the right direction for support as you navigate fertility challenges, either with our own in-clinic support groups or other local resources. Just ask your doctor at your next appointment for more information. We’re here to help.

If you live outside of the New Orleans area, RESOLVE is a great resource for those struggling with fertility challenges. This non-profit organization can help you connect with resources in your local area.

4 infertility support groups online

Joining an online support group is helpful because of the private nature of infertility challenges. If you aren’t comfortable discussing your personal journey face-to-face in your local community, an online community offers you the chance to remain anonymous and seek written support, at any time of day or night.

If you’re interested in connecting with a group online, here are four infertility support groups that offer guided and safe support.

1. IVF Support Group Facebook page

With nearly 27,000 members, the IVF Support Group is a large Facebook community for those who have been through or are currently going through IVF.

This is a place to share stories and suggestions in a closed group format. Only members can see what is being shared within the group. Moderators are there to step in if discussions become unhelpful or heated.

2. The Bump: Infertility

This forum hosted by The Bump has a message board dedicated to hundreds of different infertility and IVF topics.

Due to the sensitive nature of these topics, there are strict etiquette rules for posting. Success stories, for example, are directed to other forums.

3. Infertility Support Group on DailyStrength

If you are beginning your journey with IVF and need support, this group is for you.

It is a smaller community of approximately 2,500 members, designed to create a safe, compassionate space to seek and offer guidance.

4. RESOLVE: Male Perspective

Men are not exempt from the stress and disappointment associated with infertility challenges. This group is geared toward the male perspective of these issues.

It is important to note that women are allowed to interact within the group as well. Again, no matter how you’re dealing with fertility challenges, you deserve a support system throughout the process.

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16 top encouraging and supportive ivf blogs and forums.

Last Updated on October 15, 2021

Most women and men who begin an IVF journey hope it’ll end one way: with a baby. For some, the journey takes many years. For others, one round of IVF does it. Through the journey, regardless of how long it is, many people begin to write about it, and that’s how we’ve come to have so many IVF blogs available now. These bloggers openly share their IVF and infertility stories to not only connect with others, but also to connect with themselves.

Still, no two IVF blogs are the same and no two journeys are the same. Below are seven top fertility blogs for encouragement and support. Emotional trigger warning for those still going through IVF, or dealing with the pain of failed IVF: Each of the below seven bloggers went on to either conceive a child through IVF, or surrogacy. After this list is a compilation of five great fertility blogs in which the journey didn’t end in conception or a baby. And beyond that is a list of other information, resourceful IVF blogs and forums.

IVF Blogs and Forums

Starbucks, Peace, and the Pursuit of a Baby

URL : http://trialsbringjoy.wordpress.com

About : Chelsea, a woman who has been struggling with infertility for nearly 9 years, created Starbucks, Peace, and the Pursuit of a Baby to track her journey and just share her life stories. Along with her husband, Josh, she shares their story of infertility and IVF, after having been diagnosed with Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). Chelsea and Josh recently (May 2017) gave birth to twins – a boy and a girl, after struggling for 9 years to conceive.

Chelsea posts updates regularly, and the blog is easy to navigate, so you can go back to the beginning. She posted an incredible resource called What to Expect – IVF 201 , to help people understand the IVF consult and how to get the most out of it.

No Bun In the Oven

URL : http://nobunintheoven.com

About : You’ll find humor, inspiration, and a ton of information in No Bun in the Oven, which is arguably one of the most popular IVF blogs, if not the most popular IVF blog at one time. The story behind No Bun in the Oven is a little different, too. While many women start a blog to track their infertility struggles (which are overwhelming female infertility, No Bun in the Oven deals with male factor infertility.

Carissa, the blog’s author, wrote an insanely funny but also very helpful post called “What I Wish They’d Told Me About Egg Retrieval.”  The post covers tips only insiders would really know, and useful advice including taking the day after egg retrieval off from work and protecting yourself from infection.

Don’t Count Your Eggs

URL : http://www.dontcountyoureggs.typepad.com/

About : Maya, a woman diagnosed with a condition called Diminished Ovarian Reserve, write this sometimes humorous, sometimes poignant blog about IVF, infertility, and parenting after infertility. Ultimately, IVF never actually worked for Maya and her husband, but it’s still an incredible blog as Maya shares her details of not only IVF with her own, but IVF with donor eggs as well.

She explains in the truest definition of a nutshell, her infertility journey in two sentences:

“I have Diminished Ovarian Reserve, and after one failed IVF cycle, two failed IUIs, and one failed IVF cycle using my sister’s donated eggs, we also have Diminished Cash Reserve. In the summer of 2014 we did an FET with an anonymously donated embryo, and it worked.”

Anyone who’s had experience with IVF will get something out of this blog. Maya posted a picture of all of the medications and tools for the IVF cycle, and several other photos with funny captions in her album titled, IVF Cycle 1.

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The Two Week Wait

URL : http://the2weekwait.blogspot.com/

About:  Read The Two Week Wait regularly for very funny, and also sassy, commentary on IVF, infertility, and pregnancy. The blog’s author is also compassionate. At the very top of the blog, she added a note for people who are still trying to conceive and DON’T want to read about her pregnancy. She points those readers to the beginning of her blog, which began in 2010, so they can read along with the journey there.

This is definitely a more humorous IVF blog than most are, and the writer considers herself an “infertility activist.” She also wrote an Infertility Etiquette  page for readers to share with others, including family and friends. On that page, she starts off with a funny list of things that she’d say to people if she could, but then gets more serious and provides – literally – a cut and paste letter that people struggling with infertility can send to people.

Unpregnant Chicken

URL : http://unpregnantchicken.com/about-our-journey/

About : Unpregnant Chicken is funny, heartfelt, and very encouraging both about the IVF and infertility journey, and pregnancy. Kaeleigh MacDonald, the blog’s author, struggled with infertility for 3 years, including 2 failed IUI treatments. Eventually she and her husband tried IVF and were successful with it.

Kaeleigh also created and published helpful resources, including two TTC (trying to conceive) guides: TTC Basic FAQ  and TTC Advanced FAQ . Her post on The Two Week Wait  is a must read both for those new to IVF and those who aren’t. In it, she warns people about the tendency to fantasize about being pregnant too much during the time:

“If you get your period it goes from, the soul crushing knowledge that you could have had a baby, to a DEFCON 5, spirit obliterating, meltdown about the EXACT baby you have lost.”

While that particular part is difficult, most of Kaeleigh’s writing is over-the-top funny, and it’s one of the things that makes her blog stand out.

Inconceivable

URL: https://inconceivable12.wordpress.com/

About : Written by a woman who was diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome, Inconceivable is another IVF blog that offers a lot of support and inspiration. Katherine, the blogger behind the blog, documents her entire infertility and IVF timeline and includes links to the blog posts that go along with the timeline.

She eventually was able to conceive a child, and had a baby girl in 2015, and then subsequently had another baby girl in March 2017. The blog provides encouragement to both those who still struggle to conceive as well as those who are debating whether or not IVF is right for them. It took two cycles of IVF, but Katherine’s story is a reminder that even after failed IVF, conception is possible for some people. Where necessary, she provides trigger warnings so people are aware that they might be triggered by content in her posts.

Dreaming Of Diapers

URL : http://dreamingofdiapers.com/

About : The author of Dreaming of Diapers tried for 5 years to conceive a child. During that time, she went through multiple rounds of IVF, freezing viable embryos and getting ready for FET (frozen embryo transfer), only to have the FETs cancelled over and over again. Doctors diagnosed her with a blocked fallopian tube, hydrosalpinx due to a ruptured appendix, Asherman’s Syndrome, and finally Crohn’s Disease. After trying for 4 years, her sister acted as a surrogate and helped her and her husband have a baby.

In one of her recent posts, “IVF: What I Never Talked About,”  the author shares about how she developed Alopecia Areata from all of the IVF treatments over time. Alopecia Areata is a condition that causes someone to lose large amounts of hair. She explained that so much of the suffering taking place with IVF is behind the scenes. It’s not talked about. So she wrote the post – long after she and her husband had their baby through her sister’s surrogacy – to talk about something others may also be going through.

Blogs For Women with Failed IVF Treatments

Sometimes, IVF fails, not just once, but always. For some women, conceiving a baby just never happens. When that’s the case, it can be hard to read and blog about someone else’s success conceiving through IVF. Some of these bloggers are continuing with IVF treatments and some of them are not.

For women who come to the end of their IVF journey without a child, and need somewhere to go to connect with others in a similar situation, these blogs are great places to start.

Silent Sorority

URL:   http://blog.silentsorority.com/

About : Silent Sorority is probably the very best IVF blog online for women who never become mothers – naturally or not – after failed IVF treatments. Pamela, the blog’s author and primary contributor, isn’t alone. The fact is that more women who attempt IVF treatments fail to conceive than those that do, but there are probably 9 times more IVF bloggers whose journeys end with conception, than those who don’t.

Therefore, Pamela created an incredibly important, powerful infertility and IVF blog that women who end their infertility journeys after failed IVF. One of the most solemn and memorable posts is called, “Identity Lost and Found After Infertility and Failed IVF.”

Infertility Honesty

URL: https://infertilityhonesty.com/

About : Sarah Chamberlin is a self described “IVF veteran” who writes an ongoing blog called Infertility Honesty. Like Pamela of Silent Sorority, Sarah shares her life, and thoughts on infertility due to endometriosis and failed IVF, in this raw and impactful blog. She also describes her situation as “involuntarily childless” and discusses issues surrounding life when you want children that you cannot have, and how to move on. She and her husband spent $77,000 on multiple attempts to conceive, including IUI, IVF, and FET.

Sarah, like many women with failed IVF treatment, never became pregnant, in all of the years of trying. She wrote a long and insightful biography on her About page, which includes the following note:

“My writing mainly exists for my own therapy, which has become paramount in importance since the ongoing life crisis of infertility continues to be excessively minimized by society.  In doing so it ends up providing an uncensored view of what my life is like living with infertility.” ( About Sarah Chamberlin )

Parenthood For Me

URL:   http://parenthoodforme.blogspot.com/

About:  Sometimes, the infertility journey ends with adoption, not conception. That’s one of the best reasons to appreciate this blog, which is no longer actively maintained. Still, Erica, the blog’s founder, contributed many heartfelt – and sometimes gut wrenching – posts that failed IVF treatment survivors may relate to.

When You Can’t Have Kids

URL : http://whenyoucanthavekids.blogspot.com/

About : When You Can’t Have Kids, another infertility and failed IVF blog, provides support, encouraging, and insight for people who ended their IVF journey without conception or children. On the homepage, the author writes, “Eighteen months after our last IVF cycle, we knew we would not be having our own children. And, somehow, we have moved to a life that is much different to the one we thought we’d have.”

Kate Betton, the blog’s author, went on to write a book named after her blog which is available on Kindle, Amazon, and from The Book Depository.

No Kidding in NZ

URL : http://nokiddinginnz.blogspot.com.au/

About : The name of the blog indicates some level of humor in coming to the realization that the blog’s author, after two failed IVF treatments and two ectopic pregnancies, could not carry a baby to term. However, the author talks about a number of really tough situations that other women can relate to, including aging, and feeling guilty about not wanting children early in her career life.

On her about me page, the author included details about her story:

“A long story short is that two ectopic pregnancies and two failed IVFs later, I knew I would never have children.  I got the news on my 41st birthday.  I’ve had better birthdays.”

Like the other blogs for women with failed IVF treatments, No Kidding in NZ presents the other side of IVF, which is that when it doesn’t work, life still goes on.

Other Informative and Resourceful IVF Blogs and Forums

Some of the best blogs and forums on the web are either run by businesses or organizations or are news-like blog chock full of useful and helpful information. The remaining ten blogs of the Top 20 IVF Blogs are run by fertility clinics, networks, or other organizations. Bookmark these blogs or subscribe to them to get updates.

Fertility Authority

URL : https://www.fertilityauthority.com/blog

About : The Fertility Authority acts as a hub for a number of blogs and bloggers. On the homepage of the blog, you’ll see a list of recent posts, and the authors are likely all different. This collection of posts are primarily IVF related but are also general fertility articles and posts, as well. Some of the bloggers include doctors and fertility clinics, so a number of posts are informative with tips and advice.

Some of the most recent post titles include, “Giving Up Coffee to Boost Your Fertility,” “Is Spring the Best Time to Do an IVF Cycle?”, “Staying Posting During Your First Trimester” and “Advice Following Miscarriage.”

The Fertility Authority also created a blogroll featuring over 50 different blogs. Not all of the blogs on the list are specific to IVF, but they are all personal blogs and resources for those in need of fertility support.  Bloggers that write about their personal infertility journeys are encouraged to submit their URL to Fertility Authority. The process involves emailing the website’s team and submitting the blog for consideration. Subjects can include surrogacy, adoption, IVF, or anything related to infertility.

Shady Grove Fertility Blog

URL : https://www.shadygrovefertility.com/blog/

About : Run by the Shady Grove Fertility treatment center, this incredibly resourceful fertility and IVF blog is updated regularly – multiple times per week. You can search the blog by keyword, and if you search for the keyword IVF, you’ll find 480 posts on the subject (at the time this article was written).

Topics covered include IVF success tips, success rates and research studies, and discussions about egg donation, freezing, and treatment programs that increase the likelihood of pregnancy. What you won’t find here are deeply personal stories or specific infertility journeys. This is really an informative blog focused on solutions and treatments rather than stories. Ideally, this is the most helpful kind of IVF blog to spend reading when your treatments are just starting, or haven’t begun yet and you’re debating whether or not to use IVF.

Shady Grove Fertility is a fertility clinic, though, and not an independent resource. Some of their posts are specific to their facility and their treatment programs. It may be useful, though, to see what options are out there. Then you can discuss them with your doctor or RE.

FertileThoughts.com Discussion Forums

URL : http://www.fertilethoughts.com/forums/

Over 94,000 members participate in the FertileThoughts IVF forums, and nearly 2,000 people follow the site on Facebook. Members can post questions for patient care advocates, get advice from other people going through IVF, and find a number of free resources.

Some of the forums and resources on Fertile Thoughts include:

  • Share your fertility journey
  • Egg freezing
  • Infertility (General)
  • Trying to conceive
  • Male fertility and reproductive health
  • Home pregnancy tests
  • Egg donor and embryo match – This is an actual forum where people can meet others who are willing to donate eggs and embryos
  • PGD/PGS discussions
  • Family balancing (gender selection)
  • LGBT family building
  • Family building events
  • HIV and TTC

Visitors can register for a free membership to the website and access the forums. Some forums are heavily moderated while others are not. The parenting, pregnancy, and adoption forums are the most populated forums on this site. Newly pregnant after ART women will find a lot of support and encouragement in these forums.

IVF Forum on The Bump

URL : https://forums.thebump.com/categories/trouble-ttc

Women who are looking for a “safe haven” on the web can register for the IVF forum on The Bump. Creators of the forum are explicit its purpose, which is for people who are still trying to conceive through IVF. Because of that, certain forum rules protect people from being triggered by success stories and pregnancy announcements. Forum moderators do have places to share certain news, but by and large the forum was designed as a place to connect with others who are still struggling with infertility.

A message at the top of the Infertility forum reads:

“This is a forum for those dealing with infertility and/or undergoing IVF treatment. Because this board is a safe haven, please include “child/pregnancy mentioned” or “siggy warning” in your title or post, if applicable.”

Every month, forum members can post IVF or FET updates in a new thread just for that month. Many of the members get to know each other, replying to updates and providing a lot of encouragement. The monthly threads help the members stay connected and continue to post updates. The members also update and maintain a shared Google spreadsheet for FET.

The Bump features a few different resources that members of the forums might find helpful. One of them is the Infertility Q&A page . Fertility specialists and medical professionals from a variety of fertility clinics and organizations post answers to common questions, such as:

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Keeping and maintaining an IVF blog to track your journey and connect with others can be cathartic. If you’re interested in information about how to go about it, these posts offer practical tips.

  • Starting an Infertility Blog and Finding the TTC Community
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IVF forums also provide tips on sharing an infertility story and will help with acronyms and terminology that is so prevalent in the TTC community. Forums provide resources and links to website tips and tools. They are also good places to find ideas about what to post.

In addition to helping you learn about how to start an IVF blog, those articles also include information about how to find other people who are trying to conceive and connect with them. The more people you’re connected to in the blogging world, the more likely you’ll be to receive comments and get readers for your blog.

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Senate Republican blocks bill to protect IVF after Alabama ruling

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A Republican senator has blocked legislation that would protect in vitro fertilization and other assisted reproductive technologies in the wake of an Alabama Supreme Court ruling that frozen embryos are children under state law.

Prominent Republican officials and candidates have voiced support for IVF since the Alabama ruling, though Democrats have responded with skepticism, arguing that the GOP paved the way for the ruling with anti abortion policies. The effort by Sen. Tammy Duckworth (D-Ill.) to pass the measure using unanimous consent, which allows the Senate to bypass a rule of procedure to expedite the process and is generally used for routine, noncontroversial measures, tested their stance.

Sen. Cindy Hyde-Smith (R-Miss.) objected to Duckworth’s move for a vote, calling the bill a “vast overreach” that goes “way too far.” She said she is in favor of “total access” to IVF but downplayed the consequences of the Feb. 16 Alabama decision , saying it “did not ban IVF.”

On Wednesday, several Democrats said the block shows that some GOP senators’ public support for IVF is unsubstantiated.

At least three in vitro fertilization clinics in Alabama halted treatment following the court’s decision, which drew strong criticism from medical organizations. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists said it puts in vitro fertilization , which makes use of lab-fertilized embryos, in peril and “sets an incredibly concerning precedent for IVF access across the United States.”

With Alabama’s IVF court ruling, a scary future for women’s health care

IVF involves fertilizing eggs in a lab setting. Some of the resulting embryos may be frozen for later use, disposed of or used for research. If health-care providers find themselves at risk of civil or criminal charges for disposing of or damaging frozen embryos, they will not be willing to provide IVF, medical organizations said in response to the ruling.

The treatment may be recommended to patients struggling with conditions such as blocked fallopian tubes, severe male infertility, endometriosis or multiple miscarriages — or for whom artificial insemination did not work.

“For all their talk about supporting IVF, when it came down to it, Republicans blocked IVF protections,” Sen. Elizabeth Warren (D-Mass.) said in a statement that connected the Alabama ruling to Republican-backed bans and severe restrictions on abortion across the country. “This has always been about conservative politicians controlling women’s bodies,” she said.

Duckworth said in the Senate on Wednesday that she struggled with infertility for a decade after serving in Iraq, and that she was able to have children only as a result of IVF. “IVF made my heart whole and full, but for countless women in Alabama, that desperately sought-after dream of becoming a mom just became so much harder.”

White House press secretary Karine Jean-Pierre called access to IVF a “basic issue of reproductive freedom” in a statement on Wednesday. “Every woman in this country should have the freedom to make the decision to have a child,” she said.

About 1 in 5 women in the United States struggle with infertility, according to Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data , and hundreds of thousands of American patients rely on IVF and similar treatments each year.

Patrick Svitek contributed to this report.

Alabama embryo ruling

The ruling: More than a week after the Alabama embryo ruling , the state legislature voted to protect doctors performing in vitro fertilization from criminal or civil liability if embryos they help create are subsequently damaged or destroyed.

IVF: In vitro fertilization can be expensive and isn’t always successful. At least two of Alabama’s eight IVF clinics said they were pausing some parts of IVF treatment. Here’s what the ruling could mean for IVF across the United States .

Election impacts: Democrats, including those in the White House, argue that the Alabama decision is a harbinger of further restrictions if Republicans make gains in the 2024 election — and hope the issue can boost turnout. GOP presidential candidate Nikki Haley said she agreed with the Alabama ruling that frozen embryos are people, but she did not directly address the ruling’s finding that clinics can be sued for disposing of embryos.

Reaction: Throughout Alabama, there has been widespread shock, anger and confusion over how to proceed after the ruling. Doctors are puzzled over whether they will have to make changes to IVF procedures, and many couples are wondering whether they should transfer frozen embryos out of state.

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Embarking on the IVF journey can be both exciting and challenging. It’s a path filled with hope, anticipation, and sometimes, a fair share of emotional ups and downs. While you and your partner may be prepared for this journey, one aspect that often needs careful consideration is how to talk to your friends and family about the IVF process . At Fertility Specialists of Texas, we understand the importance of a strong support system and are here to guide you through these important conversations.

Educate Yourself on IVF First

Before talking to your friends and family about IVF, ensure you know the ins and outs of the process. Familiarize yourself with the basics, including the stages of IVF, potential challenges, and the emotional toll it can take. Knowledge empowers you to answer questions about ivf and address concerns effectively. Encourage them to ask questions and participate in the process if they’re willing.

Choose the Right Time and Place

The first step in discussing IVF with your loved ones is to pick an appropriate time and setting. Consider having these conversations in a quiet, comfortable environment where you can speak openly and honestly. Choose a moment when you and your partner are emotionally prepared to share your journey. Express your feelings openly. Let your loved ones know why you chose IVF, your expectations , and how they can support you. Honesty is crucial in creating understanding and empathy.

Be Prepared for Reactions

Acknowledge the role your friends and family play in your journey. Explain that their support, whether emotional or practical, means the world to you. Understand that people may have different reactions. Some may be empathetic and supportive, while others may need time to process the information. Be patient and open to their responses, even if they aren’t initially what you hoped for.

Seek and Share Informative IVF Resources

Share reliable resources about IVF with your loved ones. Providing them with educational materials can help alleviate their concerns and doubts. If you anticipate difficult conversations or have family dynamics that could complicate matters, consider seeking guidance from a therapist or counselor specializing in fertility issues. They can provide strategies for navigating these discussions.

Talking to your friends and family about your IVF journey may seem daunting, but it’s essential to building a solid support system for your journey. Remember that Fertility Specialists of Texas is here to support you every step of the way, from medical guidance to emotional assistance. By approaching these conversations with patience, empathy, and education, you can create a network of love and support that will help you face  the challenges of IVF .

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The Ultimate Guide to In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)

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According to the National Survey of Family Growth conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, approximately 1 in 8 couples struggle with infertility ––an estimated 49 million couples worldwide. 

Building a family is a milestone for many people. Yet up until the 1960s, many individuals and couples across the world struggled to conceive and start a family. 

Now, modern-day fertility treatments have made families a reality for couples struggling with infertility, with thousands of global organizations helping parents conceive. Thanks to much scientific advancement in the 21st century, we now have modern-day In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) to support individuals on their path toward parenthood. 

What is in vitro fertilization (IVF)? 

IVF is an advanced form of Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) that helps infertile women and couples conceive. Through IVF, eggs are manually fertilized using a sperm sample from a woman’s partner or donor.

There are many ways to tailor the In Vitro Fertilization process to intended parents, from reciprocal IVF for lesbian couples, to mini IVF treatments for people searching for a lower-impact, less expensive approach to fertility. 

IVF has helped many couples with fertility issues successfully conceive, and may be right for you if you have or experience: 

  • Damaged, blocked, or removed fallopian tubes
  • Ovulation disorders, uterine fibroids, or premature ovarian failure
  • Decreased sperm count or decreased sperm motility
  • Unexplained infertility

Additionally, those who are in a same-sex relationships or are intended single parents can achieve their dream of building a family through IVF.

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When to use IVF as fertility treatment 

Since the introduction of IVF into mainstream medicine in the 1980s, nearly 5 million babies have been born through assisted reproductive technology (ART).

However, it’s also important to understand that IVF does not ensure a successful pregnancy. Some patients require multiple IVF cycles to achieve a successful pregnancy, while others unfortunately never achieve pregnancy at all. 

Good candidates for IVF include: 

  • Women with blocked fallopian tubes 
  • Women with an infertility disorder ( Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome or Endometriosis)
  • Women with irregular cycles of ovulation 
  • Male factor infertility

IVF might not be as effective for: 

  • Women over 37 years of age (it’s urgent you act quickly for IVF or fertility preservation)
  • Women with trouble producing healthy eggs 
  • Women with no interest in getting an outside donor 

Because IVF is unique to each patient’s situation, there is no “one-size-fits-all” approach to fertilization. However, medications, blood tests, vaginal ultrasounds, sperm and egg retrieval, fertilization and embryo transfer are all critical elements of the process. 

IVF process calendar 

The IVF treatment process can be complex and daunting as a patient. It is important that you be as informed as possible throughout the entire process.

The IVF process has many elements: 

1. Consultation and Testing 

When the IVF cycle begins, your clinic will order a number of pre-treatment tests. Some tests are mandated by state and federal law, while testing required by your clinician is customized to you. These tests often include a baseline ultrasound, bloodwork, and a semen analysis for the male partner to assess your fertility challenges and possibilities.  However, other tests may also be required.

2. Ovarian stimulation 

Ovarian stimulation is a critical part of egg production. By using fertility medications, women can prepare for egg retrieval and increase their chances of a successful pregnancy. Oral and injectable fertility medications are often recommended in addition to hormones for optimal results. This may be conducted with a transvaginal ultrasound to determine when the eggs have matured.

3. Egg retrieval 

During the egg retrieval process, patients will receive general anesthesia to sleep during the procedure. Next, the eggs are then retrieved by placing a needle through the vaginal wall and into the ovary––and suctioned from the growing follicles and collected into test tubes. Finally, the test tubes are passed to the waiting embryologist. Here's what the egg retrieval calendar might look like: 

egg retrieval calendar

4. Fertilization 

Once the eggs are in the laboratory, they will be visualized under a microscope and prepared for fertilization with either fresh or frozen sperm. A process called ICSI or Intracytoplasmic Sperm Injection is then performed to inject one healthy sperm into each of the viable eggs.

5. Embryo freezing and genetic testing 

The following morning, the embryologist will be able to determine how many embryos have formed. The embryos will typically spend 5-7 days in the laboratory before they are ready to be frozen, or transferred back to the uterus. Frozen embryos tend to have better success rates. Most patients will choose to test embryos for genetic or chromosome abnormalities prior to embryo transfer through preimplantation genetic screening or preimplantation genetic diagnosis. 

6. Embryo transfer

Preparing for your embryo transfer is one of the most important processes in your IVF journey. Patients at PFCLA may receive an IVF embryo transfer calendar that resembles the following: 

frozen embryo transfer calendar example

On the day of embryo transfer , the embryos will be graded based on their cell growth and development. This grading system, along with the patient’s age, will help the physician and patient to decide on the appropriate number of embryos to transfer.

An embryo transfer procedure feels similar to a pap smear and is performed while the patient is awake. To start, the cervix is visualized and cleaned. Then, a very thin catheter (tube) loaded with the embryo(s) is placed gently through the cervix and into the uterine cavity. The embryo(s) are placed near the top of the uterus using ultrasound guidance.

7. Pregnancy test (two weeks after the embryo transfer)

Approximately ten days after the transfer, a blood pregnancy test (hCG level) is performed to determine if the patient is pregnant.

IVF vs. IUI

There are multiple available fertility treatments available today, but some are less effective than others. It’s important to talk to your doctor about what will deliver the best chances of pregnancy, so you’re not wasting precious time and money on options that may not be right for you. IUI, or intrauterine insemination, is one of these treatment options that some use because it is minimally invasive, but the success rates are usually far lower than that of IVF.  

After experiencing failed IUIs , many patients turn to IVF as a more reliable fertility treatment. IVF, or in vitro fertilization, oversees most of the stages of conception to increase the chance of a successful pregnancy. Although IUI is a viable and successful fertility treatment option, it is not uncommon for a patient’s first IUI attempt to fail. 

But for most who are experiencing infertility, IUI is an inferior option to IVF because IUI acts only as an assistant to natural conception. For many patients seeking fertility treatment, it can be impossible to achieve pregnancy through IUI, and your doctor may recommend starting with IVF. 

How to prepare for your IVF journey

To prepare for IVF, intended parents will likely need various screenings--semen analysis, uterine exams, ovarian reserve testing, and even a mock embryo transfer. This is critical to your individual IVF success, and everyone’s process will look slightly different. Preparing for IVF requires consideration of your diet, blood testing, exercise, stress, and overall health. 

Before undergoing IVF, your blood work will be used to assess the level of follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) in your system. This will give the fertility specialist an understanding of the quality and number of eggs you may have. Also, the blood work performed can help note possible incompatibilities between a mother’s blood type and father’s blood type. This blood work is also crucial in determining the presence of potential genetic disorders, viruses, and diseases that could affect the mother or baby’s health if pregnancy is achieved.

Without critical data from ultrasounds and blood work during the IVF process , the chances of a successful pregnancy are much lower, and fertility specialists can’t use the most modern techniques to truly aid patients in their journey to having a child. Additional testing may be part of the IVF process, depending on the challenges you’ve faced in getting pregnant. 

After the embryo transfer, a blood test will be used to measure the pregnancy hormone levels of human chorionic gonadotropin in a woman’s system. The presence of this hormone confirms pregnancy and is typically tested for 11-12 days after an embryo transfer has been performed. 

Fertility medications and IVF

During IVF, it’s common for fertility doctors to prescribe various fertility medications to their female patients as part of the treatment process. 

IVF Medication

These fertility drugs are meant to trigger the release of various hormones and to regulate ovulation. By doing this, women are in essence made more fertile during the procedure, which improves the chances of pregnancy. 

There are common fertility drugs that may be prescribed: 

  • Follicle-Stimulating Hormone (FSH) - Additional FSH may be used in addition to clomiphene to help stimulate the production of eggs.
  • Human Menopausal Gonadotropin (hMG) - A combination of FSH and LH, and can also be used to supplement the effects of clomiphene.
  • Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (hCG) - Used to trigger a woman’s ovaries to release viable eggs.
  • Clomid or Serophene (Clomiphene) - A type of estrogen-blocking medication. It triggers the release of GnRH (gonadotropin-releasing hormone), FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone), and LH (luteinizing hormone), which signal your ovaries to produce eggs.

The exact medications and types of drugs required for your treatment will be determined during the consultation process. Keep in mind that some of these medications can be taken orally while others will be administered through injections.

Whatever drugs a patient requires, the effectiveness of these medications will require precise timing. Patients should take their fertility drugs as directed by their fertility specialist. 

All fertility visits must also be attended on schedule to ensure optimal results. The improper dosage or administration of a fertility drug can result in a failed IVF cycle or reduced potential for a successful pregnancy.

Side effects of the IVF procedure 

When a woman is undergoing IVF treatment, the required fertility drugs can increase specific hormone levels, such as progesterone, to prepare the body for pregnancy. Just as when progesterone levels rise naturally during pregnancy, a patient’s increased progesterone levels during IVF are likely to cause fatigue.

While changes in hormone levels are the most prominent cause of fatigue during IVF, the condition can be further exacerbated by stress or anxiety. 

By the time a woman undergoes IVF treatment, she has often been dealing with infertility issues for at least a year. The worry and anticipation of repeated failed pregnancy attempts can take both a physical and mental toll, so it is understandable that many patients already feel worn down when their IVF journey begins. 

Make sure to talk through all your concerns with your fertility specialist to get peace of mind during treatments and receive resources for further emotional support if needed. This will ensure you feel prepared and comfortable during your IVF treatments. Some helpful resources could be therapy for trauma-related to previous pregnancies, talking to couples who have successfully undergone IVF or joining a support group for couples going through the same process.

Because IVF requires a variety of medications throughout the treatment process, patients undergoing IVF may experience a mixture of different side effects . However, the chances of starting a family through IVF far outweigh the possible side effects. 

If you do experience one of these side effects, know that they are common and can be minimized to prevent discomfort. These side effects include:

  • Mild cramping and bloating
  • Breast tenderness
  • Constipation
  • Leaking a small amount of clear or blood-tinged fluid after the procedure
  • Mood swings
  • Hot flashes

However, more severe risks and complications associated with IVF can include:

  • Ectopic pregnancy
  • Ovarian hyper-stimulation syndrome (OHSS)
  • Ovarian torsion

These complications can bring side effects that should not be ignored. If you're experiencing the following, reach out to your doctor immediately: 

  • Pelvic pain
  • Blood in urine
  • Heavy vaginal bleeding
  • A fever over 100.5° F

Your fertility doctor should address the side effects of IVF, as well as offer tips to deal with these symptoms. When experiencing fatigue, cramping and other side effects, it’s recommended you: 

  • Sleep for 8-10 hours every night
  • Drink plenty of water
  • Maintain a healthy, balanced diet
  • Use approved over-the-counter pain relievers
  • Rest warm compresses on areas of discomfort
  • Meditate and use other deep breathing or relaxation techniques

Although mild cramping and pelvic discomfort are common, more severe pain should not be ignored. If your side effects are 

IVF success rates and outcomes

IVF Success Rates

Success rates matter when it comes to the field of IVF, especially with surrogacy. Using the most experienced clinics with great success rates can provide you a better chance of having a successful pregnancy and birth, resulting in a healthy baby (or babies). You can ask any doctor or clinic for their success rates and protocols.

By having a conversation with your doctor about what you can expect, you’ll know what will and won’t be possible throughout your fertility journey. When it comes down to how many embryos will be implanted and what’s safe for you or your surrogate, trust your doctor’s counsel and let him guide you on the right path.

  • Since 1985 the success rate of achieving a live birth from IVF has increased from 5% to 30% (SART). 
  • The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recorded 231,936 fertility treatment cycles in America in 2015. Of that number, 99 percent of fertility treatments involved in vitro fertilization (IVF) . 
  • The overall median age for women undergoing ART is 35.
  • The CDC reports 186,157 ART cycles in which an embryo was transferred. Of these 186,175 procedures, 60,778 resulted in live births. 
  • Through ART , 72,913 infants were delivered in 2015.
  • When fresh non-donor eggs or embryos were used in ART procedures, the CDC noted an 81.6 percent success rate, meaning live birth of a child or multiple children; 16.3 percent of ART procedures resulted in pregnancy loss.

Out of nearly 118,000 cycle starts from intended egg retrievals including all embryo transfers record by SART performed in the United States in 2020, under 29%  (SART)  resulted in live births. By contrast, PFCLA has an over 44%   (SART)   live birth rate from cycle start per intended egg retrieval including all embryo transfers.

Bear in mind that comparing clinics to one another is rarely an ‘apples to apples’ comparison, as different clinics and the physicians therein take different profiles of patients based on age, risk factors and services offered (whether an egg donor was used etc…). The best thing you can do to understand your personal IVF profile is consult with a physician. 

Begin your IVF journey with top-rated fertility care

Building a family has never been more accessible and successful than ever. If you’re coping with infertility blues or looking to start your family but don’t know how, you don’t have to wait any longer to take steps toward this dream. 

The fertility specialists at Pacific Fertility Center would be happy to answer any further questions you may have regarding your surrogacy options. Contact us to get started today.

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Navigating the IVF Process: Key Insights to managing the IVF Timeline and work-life balance

by Dr. John Preston Parry | Nov 9, 2023 | Doctor's Blog

A supportive guide and timeline to navigating the IVF treatment journey

Embarking on fertility treatments can be a demanding process that requires significant emotional, financial, and time commitments.

Understanding fertility treatments is the first step in what may be one of the most important journeys you’ll take as a couple. It’s about creating life and expanding your family. We’re here to guide you through the myriad of fertility treatments available today, providing you with a clear, supportive pathway to parenthood and helping you understand the potential demands and how they might intersect with your career.

How long does the IVF process take from start to finish?

Begin by educating yourself about the IVF process. Knowing the step-by-step process, from initial consultations to procedures and follow-ups, can help you anticipate and schedule necessary time off.

The typical IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) treatment timeline is a multi-step process that usually spans several weeks. Each cycle of IVF includes multiple stages, although the exact timeline can vary based on individual circumstances and protocols of the fertility clinic.

An IVF cycle typically includes  the following steps or procedures:

  • Medications to grow multiple eggs
  • Retrieval of eggs from the ovary or ovaries
  • Insemination of eggs with sperm
  • Culture of any resulting fertilized eggs (embryos)
  • Placement (“transfer”) of one or more embryo(s) into the uterus
  • Support of the uterine lining with hormones to permit and sustain pregnancy

The IVF Process and Timeline

Embarking on the journey of in vitro fertilization (IVF) can be filled with hope and anticipation, yet it’s important to acknowledge that every couple’s path to parenthood is unique. The timeline we provide here outlines a typical IVF process, but it’s tailored with flexibility to meet your specific circumstances.

As you step forward, remember that each phase is approached with your individual needs in mind, ensuring that your journey is as smooth and successful as possible. While timelines may shift, our commitment to your family’s dream remains steadfast.

*Please note that all timelines are approximate and can vary based on individual health profiles and responses to treatment.

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Navigating Work-Life Balance During Your IVF Journey

Embarking on in vitro fertilization (IVF) can feel like taking on a second full-time job. Balancing your career while undergoing IVF requires careful planning, open communication, and self-compassion. Here are some strategies to help you maintain equilibrium between your professional life and IVF treatment.

Communicate with Your Employer

If you feel comfortable, have a candid conversation with your employer or HR department about your IVF journey. Many are willing to offer flexibility once they understand the significance and requirements of the process. You’re not obligated to disclose all the details, but providing some insight can lead to accommodations like flexible hours or remote work opportunities.

Flexibility in Your Work Schedule

Look into flexible working arrangements. Flextime, compressed workweeks, or the possibility of working from home on certain days can reduce the stress of juggling work and IVF appointments. It’s crucial to arrange this in advance to minimize the impact on your professional responsibilities.

Prioritize and Delegate

Evaluate your work tasks and prioritize them. Consider what can be delegated or what projects can be put on hold. By focusing on critical tasks, you ensure your work quality remains high, which can relieve some of the pressure during your IVF treatment.

Protect Your Personal Time

Resist the urge to overcompensate at work for the time taken off for IVF procedures. Protect your personal time by setting boundaries and avoiding the pitfall of working late hours or during weekends. This time is vital for rest and recuperation.

Plan for the Unexpected

IVF can be unpredictable, with last-minute changes or unexpected outcomes. Have a contingency plan for work projects and deadlines in case you need to adjust your schedule suddenly.

Understanding Your Legal Rights in the IVF Process

Deciding to embark on an IVF journey is a monumental, intimate decision, often reached after considerable reflection and, in many cases, profound emotional challenges. While navigating the intense emotions and the deluge of medical details, you must not overlook another significant element: the complexities of the legal framework surrounding Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) and IVF. To learn more, check out our blog on the  7 Fertility Legal Insights To Avoid Common Pitfalls .

Navigating the Emotional Landscape of IVF

The stress of fertility treatments can affect your emotional well-being and your performance at work. Tools for stress management, such as those recommended by ACOG, can be valuable resources to help you maintain your composure and focus.

According to  OBGYN Nazanin E. Silver , “Before starting infertility treatment, I encourage couples to discuss what they will do if initial treatments don’t work. Would you ever consider adoption? Would your partner? You can talk through scenarios together, and it may help to consider couples therapy.”

In a  recent blog , we discuss how the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) highlights that the emotional impact of infertility often mirrors that of other significant medical conditions such as cancer or heart disease. You might oscillate between feelings of denial, anger, guilt, depression, and acceptance, all of which can be overwhelming and stressful.

In a recent interview with a Positive Steps patient, the couple noted, “The most crucial advice we can offer is to remember that you are not alone. The struggle with infertility can often feel isolating, but it’s important to know that you are part of a community that understands your journey and stands with you.”

Embracing Self-Care During Your IVF Journey

Self-Care is Non-Negotiable. Amid the demands of IVF and work, self-care should be a priority. At the heart of your fertility journey is a commitment to nurturing your own well-being to enhance your fertility and increase the prospects of a successful pregnancy. Self-care in this context means taking thoughtful steps toward improving your overall health and creating the best possible environment for conception.

One of the primary self-care measures involves reviewing and potentially altering medication use, with professional guidance, to avoid substances that may hinder fertility or cause developmental issues. A healthcare provider can help determine which medications are safe to continue and which to suspend during preconception and beyond.

Maintaining a healthy body weight is also crucial, as weight can influence hormonal balance and fertility. A balanced diet and regular exercise not only support reproductive health but also improve mental well-being, a key factor in the fertility journey.

Moderation is the operative word when it comes to alcohol consumption. Reducing intake can have a positive impact on fertility, and it’s a change that partners can undertake together as part of their shared journey toward parenthood.

Furthermore, understanding the significance of timing in your sexual routine can be empowering. Aligning sexual activity with the most fertile periods can naturally increase the chances of pregnancy.

Lastly, addressing additional personal health factors, such as stress levels, sleep patterns, and other lifestyle choices, is essential. Each element of your lifestyle has the potential to affect fertility, and making positive changes can contribute to a healthier conception.

By integrating these self-care practices into your routine, you are taking control of what you can on your path to parenthood. It’s a journey that extends beyond the physical aspects of fertility to encompass the nurturing of your body, mind, and relationship.

Building a Support System: The Key to IVF Success

Navigating the complexities of fertility treatments can be emotionally taxing. During this period, a robust support system becomes invaluable. While the workplace may offer one avenue of support, expanding your search for understanding and solidarity beyond professional circles can provide comfort and connection.

At Positive Steps Fertility we are dedicated to helping individuals and couples get the support they need. These groups provide a safe space to share experiences, offer and receive advice, and foster a sense of companionship on the journey to parenthood.

It’s also important to consider the support that can come from close friends, family members, and even online forums. These personal connections can offer different perspectives and kinds of support. While friends and family provide a personal touch, online communities can offer anonymity and a broader range of experiences.

Counseling services, whether individual or as a couple, can also play a critical role in your support network. Professional therapists, particularly those specializing in fertility issues, can guide you through the emotional complexities that arise during this time, helping you to develop coping strategies and maintain mental and emotional wellness.

Remember, seeking and accepting support is not a sign of weakness; it’s a proactive step toward ensuring your emotional resilience as you navigate your fertility journey.

Preparing Financially for Your IVF Treatment

Costs associated with fertility treatments can add another layer of stress when balancing work life. At Positive Steps Fertility, our goal is to provide the highest quality fertility treatment at the most transparent and affordable cost. We understand that each fertility journey is unique, and we’re committed to getting to know you personally and designing a treatment plan that aligns with your family goals and budget. We aim to provide all the information and transparency you need to make informed decisions. So, if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to call us at 855-759-4124 or email us at [email protected] to learn more.

Embracing the IVF Journey with Confidence and Clarity

At Positive Steps Fertility, we understand that your fertility journey is just one part of your larger life tapestry, which includes your professional aspirations. As you move forward with treatments, we’re here to support you in harmonizing your career goals with the path to parenthood.

With Positive Steps Fertility, you can be assured that while you strive for success in your professional life, we are working alongside you, dedicating our expertise to help you achieve your most cherished personal goal—building a family.

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Rep. Wild Announces New Wave of Support for IVF Protections, Calls for Congressional Action

Congresswoman wild’s access to family building act would enact federal protections for assisted reproductive technologies.

Today, Congresswoman Susan Wild joined members of the Democratic Women’s Caucus (DWC) to call on Congress to pass the Access to Family Building Act, which would protect in-vitro fertilization (IVF) access nationwide. This comes on the heels of the Alabama State Supreme Court decision to classify frozen embryos as “children,” a ruling that has left the future of IVF in the state uncertain.

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“Let me be clear: [the Alabama State Supreme Court] ruling, and any barriers to assisted reproductive technology, are unacceptable and cruel,” said Rep. Wild. “It’s why Congress must pass my bill, the Access to Family Building Act, immediately, to send a message to the entire country that we are fighting for their right to make decisions about their own bodies, their own journey through parenthood, and to start their families however they see fit.”

Since the Alabama ruling, Rep. Wild’s bill, the Access to Family Building Act , added over 90 new cosponsors and has been endorsed by numerous prominent health care groups.

Current cosponsors of the Access to Family Building Act include Representatives Terri Sewell [AL-07], Debbie Wasserman Schultz [FL-25], Gerald E. Connolly [VA-11], Annie Kuster [NH-02], Lori Trahan [MA-03], Jennifer McClellan [VA-04], Greg Landsman [OH-01], Eleanor Holmes Norton [D.C.], Wiley Nickel [NC-13], Deborah K. Ross [NC-02], Chrissy Houlahan [PA-06], Donald G. Davis [NC-01], Judy Chu [CA-28], Elissa Slotkin [MI-07], Hillary J. Scholten [MI-03], John B. Larson [CT-01], Jared Moskowitz [FL-23], Jasmine Crockett [TX-30], Andre Carson [IN-07], Sydney Kamlager-Dove [CA-37], Abigail Spanberger [VA-07], Shri Thanedar [MI-13], Yvette Clarke [NY-09], Mary Gay Scanlon [PA-05], Marilyn Strickland [WA-10], Gwen Moore [WI-04], Joe Morelle [NY-25], Mark Takano [CA-39], Morgan McGarvey [KY-03], Josh Gottheimer [NJ-05], Sheila Jackson Lee [TX-18], Frederica S. Wilson [FL-24], Brad Sherman [CA-32], Chris Pappas [NH-01], Joyce Beatty [OH-03], Andy Kim [NJ-03], Nikema Williams [GA-05], Mark Pocan [WI-02], Ami Bera [CA-06], Earl Blumenauer [OR-03], Grace Meng [NY-06], Leger Fernandez [NM-03], Andrea Salinas [OR-06], Jahana Hayes [CT-05], Kevin Mullin [CA-15], Sean Casten [IL-06],  Ro Khanna [CA-17], Eric Swalwell [CA-14], Dina Titus [NV-01], Eric Sorensen [IL-17], Lloyd Doggett [TX-37], Brittany Pettersen [CO-07], Nanette Barragán [CA-44], Dan Kildee [MI-08], Lois Frankel [FL-22], Mike Levin [CA-49], Ted Lieu [CA-36], Steven Horsford [NV-04], Chris Deluzio [PA-17], Susie Lee [NV-03], Stacey E. Plaskett [USVI], Robin L. Kelly [IL-02], Robert Garcia [CA-42], Frank Mrvan [IN-01], Rick Larsen [WA-02], Jan Schakowsky [IL-09], Jill Tokuda [HI-02], Dean Phillips [MN-03], Bill Foster [IL-14], Shontel Brown [OH-11], Suzanne Bonamici [OR-01], Bobby Scott [VA-03], Becca Balint [VT at large], Mike Quigley [IL-05], Jimmy Gomez [CA-34], Nydia M. Velázquez [NY-12], Pat Ryan [NY-18], Dan Goldman [NY-10],  Adam Schiff [CA-30], David Trone [MD-6], Ayanna Pressley [MA-7], Val Hoyle [OR-4], Sylvia R. Garcia [TX-29], Rosa L. DeLauro [CT-3], Suzan DelBene [WA-1], Kathy Castor [FL-14], Greg Stanton [AZ-4], Kweisi Mfume [MD-7], Linda T. Sánchez [CA-39], Jim McGovern [MA-2], Lizzie Fletcher [TX-7], Marcy Kaptur [OH-9], Mikie Sherrill [NJ-11], and Jerry Nadler [NY-12].

The Access to Family Building Act is also endorsed by the Center for Reproductive Rights, American Society for Reproductive Medicine, RESOLVE: the National Infertility Association, Endocrine Society, GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (GLAD), Reproductive Freedom for All, National Council of Jewish Women, Hadassah, HealthyWomen, and the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR).

To listen to the full press conference click here , or see the transcript of Congresswoman’s full remarks below:

I was proud to introduce the Access to Family Building Act a little over one month ago, which would codify the right to in-vitro fertilization, and other assisted reproductive technologies.  

At the time, I spoke about my two children, Clay and Adrienne, and how it is the greatest privilege of my life to be their mother.  

I talked about the emotional stories I hear from friends and family who struggle with their fertility – you will hear some more of those today – and how it is our duty to support anyone looking to start or grow their families.  

What I didn’t talk about were the attacks that were sure to come in the wake of the Dobbs decision to all forms of reproductive healthcare, and how even procedures like IVF, which so many families rely on, could be at risk. 

Since the Alabama State Supreme Court made the cruel decision to classify frozen embryos as children, many IVF clinics across the state have paused their services, leaving so many hopeful parents to scramble and worry about their futures.  

The effects of this ruling are devastating – and not just for individuals struggling with their fertility. Cancer patients, for instance, often use IVF to freeze their embryos before undergoing chemotherapy.  

Let me be clear: this ruling, and any barriers to assisted reproductive technology, are unacceptable and cruel.

It’s why Congress must pass my bill, the Access to Family Building Act, immediately, to send a message to the entire country that we are fighting for their right to make decisions about their own bodies, their own journey through parenthood, and to start their families however they see fit.

I am proud to say that in just the past week, we have added over 90 cosponsors to this bill, as well as a number of national advocacy and health care groups. We are all committed to seeing it over the finish line.

So thank you, to all my colleagues who are here with me today and everyone who has joined me in the fight to codify the right to IVF.  

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‘We did it in cattle’: Alabama Republicans’ bungled response to IVF patients

Patients and doctors gather at state house following IVF ruling searching for answers from lawmakers – but find none

O n Wednesday morning, some 200 Alabama in vitro fertilization ( IVF ) patients, doctors and advocates descended on the Alabama statehouse. Wearing orange and pink shirts for infertility awareness, they carried a variety of handmade signs: “You can’t cuddle an embryo.” “I just want to be a mom.”

For these people and thousands of others in the state, the last two weeks have been tumultuous.

Following the Alabama supreme court’s recent ruling that frozen embryos are considered “children” , IVF clinics in the state have paused their services, leaving people who were in the process of treatment in limbo. Embryo shipping companies have also stopped servicing the state, which means that patients who want to transfer their frozen embryos out of Alabama are unable to do so.

The rally concluded with some direct conversations between advocates and lawmakers. In one such interaction, the Republican state representative Ben Harrison told families that a “solution” would be to freeze the sperm and egg separately, instead of freezing embryos, likening the former procedure to a process used on cows.

“My personal opinion is that we keep them apart and only bring them together for what you need and what you’re willing to implant,” Harrison said. “We did it in cattle all the time.”

The interaction pointed to the disconnect between families who are undergoing the IVF process, doctors who provide IVF services and lawmakers who may not understand the intricacies of and science behind IVF, but who ultimately can decide whether or not it remains legal.

Dr Mamie McLean of Alabama Fertility in Birmingham has become one of the most vocal opponents of the supreme court decision. Flanked by other doctors and IVF patients, she spoke to those attending the rally before they headed into the statehouse.

“As an infertility physician, I am used to difficult conversations, but these last two weeks have been absolutely heartbreaking,” she said. “Due to the uncertainty posed by the supreme court ruling, we have had to cancel embryo transfers for patients who are longing and praying for a child. We call on the state of Alabama to provide immediate, complete and permanent access to IVF care for the women and families of Alabama.”

Resolve, the national infertility group that helped organize the rally, provided pamphlets and advised attendees on how to speak to legislators. “What happens here today in these offices will be looked at by the rest of the country,” said Barbara Collura, the group’s president and CEO. “This potentially could be a roadmap for other states to restrict access to IVF or a roadmap for how to protect access to IVF and family building. Please use your voice.”

Collura said that some desperate families were leaving the state for treatment.

“You’re on these medications for weeks and they cost a lot of money. It’s not covered by insurance for most of these people,” she said of the drugs used during IVF treatment. “You can’t just stop and start up next week, plus we don’t know when this will get fixed.”

‘It could end my journey’

Elizabeth Goldman, who stood with McLean and other advocates during the rally, was diagnosed with Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser syndrome when she was 14. The rare disorder means that she was born without a uterus; doctors told her she would never be able to carry her own child. When the University of Alabama launched a uterus transplant program in 2020, Goldman applied, moving with her husband from Mobile to Birmingham (near the school’s campus) in the hope of being able to have a child. After receiving the uterus transplant and undergoing several rounds of IVF treatment and transfers, Goldman was able to conceive. Her daughter, who was with her at the rally, was born in October 2023.

Transplant patients are able to keep the uterus for just one or two deliveries, because of the volatility of a foreign organ, Goldman said. She estimates that she has taken about 20,000 pills since her transplant 22 months ago to keep her body from rejecting the uterus.

Her medical team cleared her to carry a second child, and had planned to proceed with her transfer this March. But the supreme court decision has put that at a standstill. Goldman was on her way to a transfer appointment when she found out through a notification that her clinic had closed.

“With all of the transplant meds I take, it can start to cause kidney damage and other health problems,” she said. “It’s not a life-saving transplant, but a life-giving transplant. So basically, right now I’m healthy. My kidneys are good. But if it continues to drag on, it could end my journey.”

Jamie Heard and Deidra Smith drove to the rally from Birmingham hoping to speak to legislators face to face. Heard used IVF to give birth to her now two-year-old son. She had already started her cycle for a second child when the news of the supreme court’s decision broke. Her clinic cancelled her appointments in the middle of treatment.

“It was heartbreaking,” Heard said. “The emotions for the past few days – I feel like I’ve been grieving a loved one, that’s how heavy my emotions have been.”

Brittany Pettaway and her husband Byron, of Montgomery, currently have eight frozen embryos. She said that this was their only chance of becoming parents. They attended the rally hoping that legislators would make things go “back to literally how it was two weeks ago”.

“We’re just trying to protect that right, and what should be a natural, God-given ability to do,” she said. “It’s surreal, I feel like I’m waiting for someone to say it was a joke, a really horrible emotional nightmare.”

‘I don’t know what the answer is’

After the rally ended, advocates queued outside to make their way into the statehouse to speak to legislators directly. The floors with offices for senators and representatives were full of people dressed in orange and pink.

Outside one office, a group of families engaged the Alabama state auditor, Andrew Sorrell, in a conversation about their struggles. As auditor, Sorrell reports the state’s receipts, claims and payments, taxes and revenues to the governor.

“I don’t know exactly what the answer is, but we’ve got to find some way to protect the IVF industry while also maintaining our pro-life stance,” he said.

Sorrell suggested women only make as many embryos as they want to use. The advocates explained “the numbers game”, in which a family may produce dozens of eggs, but ultimately only have one or two viable, healthy embryos. Sorrell also suggested the state pay to make it easier for people to adopt frozen embryos.

Following the near immediate backlash to the court’s decision, Republicans across the country initially were mum on the issue. But as clinics across Alabama began to close, they turned heel, speaking out in support of IVF. Alabama’s attorney general promised not to prosecute IVF clinics or patients, while the former president Donald Trump also spoke in support of the procedure. On Wednesday, several bills that would preserve IVF moved forward in the Alabama legislature. One bill, which will progress to the Alabama senate after it received a vote of 94-6 on Thursday, would protect clinics from lawsuits.

But there is no comprehensive solution to preserving IVF in the state and, in the meantime, patients and families, even those mid-treatment, are left waiting.

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The fertility journey and the IVF journey are as much an emotional journey as a physical one, and taking care of your emotions is vital.  Trying to conceive and being repeatedly unsuccessful creates an intense, and at times overwhelming, range of emotions, all of which can impact your wellbeing and your mental health.  

Fertility issues can be really hard for many people, particularly when on platforms like Instagram it can look like everything is only ever going well. ~Carrie Symonds

Emotional responses during an IVF journey

Emotional responses to infertility are complex.  A medical diagnosis of infertility can initially leave you feeling shocked and in disbelief as you struggle to come to terms with the fact that your hopes and dreams of having a child are threatened or not under your control.  For some people, the diagnosis can also offer a way forward to potential treatments, and a glimmer of hope after months or years of repeated disappointments. 

Everyone’s IVF journey is unique. However, many people experience similar feelings as they move through the stages of treatment. Below are some common feelings that are experienced throughout an individual’s IVF journey.

Grief and loss

It wasn’t until my psychologist talked about grief that I realised my sadness all these years was actually grief, it helped to have a name”

Infertility and its treatment can entails many losses. Some people may experience the loss of: 

  • miscarriage
  • your imagined family
  • achieving your family ‘naturally’ without intervention
  • failed IVF cycles
  • biological relatedness if donor egg
  • sperm or embryos are used
  • hope or control 
  • intimacy in your relationship

Because so many of these losses are not easily visible, the grief experienced by people may be overlooked or dismissed by others.

Balancing hope and despair

Many state that hardest part of the whole IVF procedure is trying to remain positive whilst also dealing with failures.  But the reality is that both hope and despair are natural parts of the IVF experience for most people. When you want something so much the pain of failure can be overwhelming.

When the first IVF attempt fails you just stop wanting to try because you don’t want to fail again”

One approach to balancing the how and coping with despair is to try to view the IVF process as one of trial and error. Try and maintain the perspective that failed attempts may occur along the way as part of this process. 

Feelings of jealousy during your IVF journey

Is it normal to be driving home and feel like aiming my car at mothers with children? I would never do it, but the thought still crosses my mind. It makes me feel inhuman. Am I normal?”

Like anger, jealousy is an emotion that many people struggle with and is central to many people’s infertility and IVF experience. When what you dearly want is unattainable, even when you are going to considerable lengths to achieve it, it hurts to see other people succeed.  Jealousy can be triggered by quite obvious events – a friend announcing their pregnancy, seeing a family pushing their newborn in a pram, a magazine article about a celebrity’s pregnancy.  Although jealousy is a painful emotion it also signals what you value and what feels threatened.  Acknowledging the feelings and understanding the underlying issues is an important part of managing these difficult feelings.

Feeling marginalised 

The experience of an IVF journey for all patients is challenging and intense.  Experiencing IVF as a single woman or a same-sex attracted couple can bring additional challenges.  

Some people experience judgement from medical staff, or from family or friends for their choices.   For others it’s a lack of recognition of or inclusion of partners.  Some people report feeling invisible become they don’t conform to the picture of the more typical heterosexual couple seeking treatment.   

Navigating the emotions of treatment without a partner can feel like a double burden for some people: managing the rigors of treatment without the support of a partner, while at the same time coming to terms with the idea you are creating your family alone, and not within the relationship you wanted.  All of these experiences can result in feeling isolated, unsupported and invalid. It can also make the experience of IVF even more of a challenge.

Feeling overwhelmed by information and decisions  

Embarking on IVF treatment involves processing a significant amount of information.  This includes often unfamiliar medical terminology and procedures, hormone regimes, injection schedules, and ultrasound appointments.  It also requires multiple decisions: Which specialist? Which clinic? Do I take time off work? Who to tell? How many embryos to transfer ?  It is easy to feel overwhelmed and bewildered by the mental load of IVF.

It might sound strange but the hardest part for us wasn’t the treatment itself but feeling lost in the overload of information and decision making. We agonised over every choice we had to make, desperate to make the right decisions.”

The two week wait

Many people describe the 10-14 day waiting period between embryo transfer and pregnancy test as the most difficult part of the cycle.  This is a time when your hopes are high, and so are your fears.  After several weeks of daily injections, medical appointments and procedures, the waiting can feel intolerable.   

Nothing prepared me for the waiting.  I swung between believing it had failed, and just wanted it over with so I could try again next month, and obsessing over every symptom, desperately hoping I was pregnant. I was exhausted .”

Many people describe feeling a rollercoaster of emotions during this phase of treatment, as well as a constant look-out for pregnancy signs.  The search for reassurance is complicated by the fact that pregnancy symptoms at this stage can be attributed to side-effects of the treatment itself.  Compounding the emotional turmoil of this stage of treatment for many people is their reluctance, or inability, to participate in their usual stress-relieving activities like jogging, playing tennis, taking a spin class, or relaxing in the spa.

Feeling unable to cope during your IVF journey

We got to rock-bottom when our third cycle failed.  We couldn’t face another failure, we had nothing left.”

With the emotional turmoil, the physical challenges and the mental overwhelm of treatment, it is very easy to feel like you’re not coping.  It is normal and expected that these feelings will fluctuate throughout a treatment cycle.  For some people, might be strongest just before a scan or before egg collection and reflects the enormous anticipation of that next step that will determine if their cycle will continue.  For others it’s the sense of hopelessness and helplessness that surrounds treatment failure, and they lose confidence in their capacity to bear another loss. 

Recognising that you have reached the point of feeling unable to cope can feel debilitating and overwhelming.  Giving yourself permission to feel this way, normalising it in the context of what you are going through can help create a path through the feelings.  Exploring what you need that will help support you is the next step, which helps create some structure.  What will help right now?  What can you do today that will help you feel like you’re coping?  

It may also be necessary to re-assess your expectations around coping.  What does coping look like for you? Often people’s expectations to be positive, motivated and strong don’t allow for the reality of what they are experiencing.  

Learn more about to how to cope with feelings that arise.

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The Senate GOP campaign arm is urging candidates to back IVF following an Alabama Supreme Court ruling. Mariam Zuhaib/AP hide caption

The Senate GOP campaign arm is urging candidates to back IVF following an Alabama Supreme Court ruling.

Senate Republicans' campaign arm is counseling candidates to "clearly and concisely reject" any efforts to restrict access to in-vitro fertilization (IVF) treatments days after an Alabama court ruling that frozen embryos are considered children drove the issue into the 2024 campaign.

The move demonstrates the persistent concern from party leaders about being out of step with voters on reproductive issues after the issue of abortion rights helped Democrats win many competitive races across the country in the 2022 midterms.

In a memo obtained by NPR, the executive director of the National Republican Senatorial Committee (NRSC) warned Senate GOP candidates that the Alabama Supreme Court ruling could be "fodder for Democrats hoping to manipulate the abortion issue for electoral gain." The memo provides polling and suggested messages for candidates on the issue.

On Wednesday President Biden called the Alabama decision "outrageous and unacceptable."

GOP presidential candidate Nikki Haley, who struggled with infertility issues, told NBC that "embryos, to me, are babies."

Former President Trump, the leading contender for the 2024 GOP presidential nomination, avoided the issue immediately following the ruling, but on Friday posted a message on his social media channel backing IVF and calling on the Alabama legislature to "preserve the availability of IVF" in the state. He said "we want to make it easier for mothers and father to have babies, not harder!"

Trump has not specifically stated his position on what, if any, federal action he would back on abortion restrictions, but he repeatedly touts that he appointed three of the Supreme Court justices who helped overturn Roe v. Wade in 2022.

The NRSC memo cited data from GOP pollster and former Trump White House adviser Kellyanne Conway showing "a staggering 85% of all respondents, including 86% of women, support increasing access to fertility-related procedures and services." The memo urges candidates to use messages supporting IVF and opposing restrictions and "framing such opposition as a defense of family values and individual freedom."

After a day of silence, GOP candidates speak out

There was evidence some candidates were quick to heed the advice. Ohio businessman Bernie Moreno, a candidate in the GOP primary to run against Sen. Sherrod Brown, D-Ohio, sent a message on social media stating "I'm in favor of anything that promotes people having more babies and strong families."

My goal is to promote a culture of life. IVF is a vital tool for families that struggle with infertility. We have a crisis in this country of people not having enough kids at replacement levels. I’m in favor of anything that promotes people having more babies & strong families. https://t.co/rM7Q73zQK9 — Bernie Moreno (@berniemoreno) February 23, 2024

Brown shot back that Moreno — and the two other Republicans in the race — opposed a statewide ballot initiative that was approved by voters in 2023 that added protections for abortion services to the state's constitution.

"Women should have the ability and right to have a family on their own terms and that includes having access to fertility treatments like IVF," Brown said. "Bernie Moreno, Frank LaRose, and Matt Dolan have already made their position on this issue clear: they opposed Issue 1 and now want to overrule the majority of Ohioans who supported it — no memo from Mitch McConnell can change that."

David Bergstein, spokesman for the Senate Democrats' campaign committee, argued the GOP's record on reproductive rights "speaks for itself" and added, "Republican Senate candidates have spent years opposing women's right to make their most personal decisions about their health care and their families, and voters will hold them accountable for their record."

Political fallout from the decision spreads

Lawmakers in Alabama are already moving to pass legislation protect IVF , and GOP Gov. Kay Ivey told NPR member station WBHM in a statement that she would sign it.

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Congress could move to enact federal legislation, with top Democrats moving quickly to contrast with the GOP on reproductive freedom issues. Illinois Democratic Sen. Tammy Duckworth, who gave birth to two daughters using IVF, sponsored a bill in January with Sen. Patty Murray, D-Wash., to ensure access to IVF and other reproductive technology. Duckworth said in a statement on Tuesday she was worried after the U.S. Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade in 2022 states would move next to restrict fertility treatments and said the Alabama decision "proves that we were right to be worried." She called on Congress to pass her legislation. In the House Pennsylvania Democrat Susan Wild sponsored a similar measure. One Republican, Florida Rep. Anna Paulina Luna, was listed as a co-sponsor, but her office told NPR she was added without her permission and will be requesting to be removed next week.

South Carolina GOP Rep. Nancy Mace, campaigning for Trump on Friday, told NPR she plans to file a resolution in the House next week "showing support for IVF. That would be a natural next step, and look at ways that we can protect womens' access to IVF — should be a priority for us."

--NPR's Lexie Schapitl and Stephen Fowler contributed to this story

GOP politicians are saying they've always cared about IVF. Bills they've supported indicate otherwise.

  • Republicans are rallying around IVF access after a controversial Alabama Supreme Court ruling.
  • The ruling deemed frozen embryos were people, which experts say threatens IVF procedures .
  • The issue has been further fueled by a House bill to recognize human life at fertilization.

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Republicans showing up on X en masse to rally around access to in-vitro fertilization are having their support for previous bills and political stances thrown back at them by peeved constituents online.

IVF is a medical procedure in use since the late '70s that helps patients to conceive by retrieving a patient's eggs from their ovaries and fertilizing them in a lab.

This procedure is now under threat both in Alabama and nationwide.

The Alabama Supreme Court ruled on February 16 that frozen embryos — necessary for some IVF patients who want to delay their pregnancy by freezing their sometimes already fertilized eggs — are considered people under the law. It can result in fertilizing and freezing multiple embryos to be implanted.

Clinics are already suspending IVF care as a result.

Several party members immediately began distancing themselves from the Alabama ruling and voicing support for IVF treatments. Some even pointed out that they've used these treatments themselves.

GOP Rep. Michelle Steel of California, an anti-abortion advocate, said she did not support federal restrictions on IVF.

"IVF allowed me, as it has so many others, to start my family," Steel wrote on Thursday on X.

As someone who struggled to get pregnant, I believe all life is a gift. IVF allowed me, as it has so many others, to start my family. I believe there is nothing more pro-life than helping families have children, and I do not support federal restrictions on IVF. — Rep. Michelle Steel (@RepSteel) February 22, 2024

However, users pointed out that Steel is a co-sponsor of the Life at Conception Act .

Introduced in January, the House bill, co-sponsored by 125 House Republicans, would nationally recognize a "human being" to exist at fertilization — a similar position to the Alabama ruling. Previous versions of this bill have failed to move forward for a vote .

There's no exception for IVF in this House bill. Similarly named acts previously introduced in the Senate have included this carveout.

Spokespersons for Steel did not immediately respond to requests for comment from Business Insider sent outside regular business hours.

Rep. Ashley Hinson, another co-sponsor of the House bill, was also criticized.

My heart goes out to anyone who has struggled with fertility & has had a difficult journey to motherhood. IVF has helped countless women grow their family & we should ensure that women who want to become moms are able to do so. IVF should remain an available option for women. — Ashley Hinson (@RepAshleyHinson) February 23, 2024

A spokesperson for Hinson redirected BI to her post.

South Carolina Rep. Nancy Mace, who said on X that she would "stop any and all efforts to ban IVF," was hit with a community note pointing out that she co-sponsored a previous version of the Life at Conception Act.

I will stop any and all efforts to ban IVF. — Rep. Nancy Mace (@RepNancyMace) February 24, 2024

A representative for Mace told Business Insider in a statement that her office is drafting a resolution to express support for IVF and supports legislation that would protect IVF access.

"It is her hope that this resolution gains strong bipartisan support and she can build on that with substantive legislation to protect access to IVF, and other ART, nationwide," the spokesperson told Business Insider. "Her resolution is not in lieu of introducing a bill, but a first step in building a bipartisan coalition to ensure couples struggling with infertility throughout this country have access to IVF, and other ART." The spokesperson also mentioned Mace's previous support of House Resolution 345, "affirming the federal duty to ensure unhindered access to infertility services for all."

Mike Rogers , a GOP Senate candidate in Michigan and former House representative, posted that he opposes "any and all efforts to restrict access to IVF." Democratic candidate Elissa Slotkin , who is running against Rogers for Senate, pointed out that Rogers has co-sponsored four bills with similar language to the House bill while in Congress.

"You don't get to run away from your own record because you're just now understanding the consequences," Slotkin wrote.

Come on, Mike. In your 14 years in Congress, you co-sponsored FOUR bills — the last one with Jim Jordan in 2013 — that would have the same effect as the Alabama Supreme Court’s IVF ruling, making it impossible for millions of couples to have a family. You don’t get to run away… https://t.co/jg0tf0scGV — Elissa Slotkin (@ElissaSlotkin) February 23, 2024

A spokesperson for Rogers pointed back to his X post in a phone call with BI but did not answer follow-up questions about whether the Senate candidate would support efforts to protect IVF should he be elected.

Former President Donald Trump recently voiced support for IVF following the Alabama decision and called on the state to continue supporting IVF treatments. His press secretary, Karoline Leavitt, however, declined to tell ABC News whether he would support any national law maintaining the right to access IVF treatments.

President Joe Biden's campaign and Vice President Kamala Harris have also lobbed criticism regarding the Alabama Supreme Court decision, specifically calling out Trump .

"No matter what Donald Trump says about IVF today, don't get distracted from the facts," Harris wrote on X. "What's happening in Alabama is a direct result of Donald Trump's Supreme Court overturning Roe v. Wade."

No matter what Donald Trump says about IVF today, don’t get distracted from the facts. What’s happening in Alabama is a direct result of Donald Trump’s Supreme Court overturning Roe v. Wade. He is the architect of this health care crisis. pic.twitter.com/CWOZ1IWpY3 — Kamala Harris (@KamalaHarris) February 23, 2024

"Crooked Joe Biden doesn't care about families, as evidenced by his destructive policies the past four years," Trump spokesperson Steven Cheung told Business Insider in response to the Biden campaign statement . "The Biden campaign is shitting their pants because they know this election will be a referendum on all the misery and destruction Biden has brought to every single American." Reproductive rights organizations who previously spoke to Business Insider warned that Dobbs V. Jackson Women's Health Organization, which overturned Roe v. Wade, would open up the floodgates to restrictions on other aspects of reproduction like birth control and IVF . Trump's three conservative justices appointed to the court — Amy Coney Barrett, Brett Kavanaugh, and Neil Gorsuch — paved the way for Roe to fall.

February 27: This story has been updated with a statement from a spokesperson for Nancy Mace.

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5 Ways to Support Someone Going Through IVF

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Fertility struggles are a daunting journey!

Although it may be a rollercoaster of emotions it is not a journey that you need to go through on your own.

We asked former and current fertility treatment patients what they think equals great help or support during the process and this article covers some tips based on what we learned from them, and general pointers for supporting a friend, family member or colleague through their fertility journey.

What this article covers:

Understanding what IVF might look like

What you should do

What you shouldn’t do

What you shouldn’t say

On the flip side of this, if you have ever had a friend, family member or co-worker undergo fertility treatment such as IVF, you might have thought about what you should [or shouldn’t] say or do and maybe even got a little worried about it to the point of not saying anything.

That’s understandable, but something we want to try to avoid happening, as it can increase people’s feelings of isolation during a difficult time.

To be honest, there is no clearcut answer here as to how each person may individually want or need help.

However, there are a few general guidelines that can help guide how you approach supporting someone through fertility treatments like IVF or egg freezing:

Understand What The IVF Journey Might Look Like

Many people having trouble conceiving naturally may turn to clinical fertility treatments.

Part of the difficulty in undergoing these is the new terminology, the sense of experiencing something that others might not quite fully understand.

When family and friends are uncertain about what the process actually is, or what it involves, it can widen the gulf between the person or couple experiencing it and their support networks.

If a friend or family member is undergoing treatment, it’s a good idea to get to grips with the basics of what their treatment might involve, to remove any room for misunderstandings and to be able to talk to them about various aspects (if they want to).

To get started, you could read the ELANZA guide to egg freezing or check out this IVF explainer by the NHS.

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1. What You Should Do

Take note of important dates.

While you are talking, if your friend does mention an important date, for example, her transfer day or her next appointment - try to make a note of this.

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When the day does come around, she may appreciate a message or a quick phone call wishing her luck.

If you think that she might not want to talk about it - you don’t need to ask how the appointment went.

A simple card, a bunch of flowers or chocolate will let her know that you are thinking of her and that she is not alone.

Let Them Open Up In Their Own Time - Sometimes All They Need Is Someone To Listen

This particular piece of advice actually applies to all situations in life but in particular in this context. Often, when someone starts to open up to you, you might feel the urge to add your two cents or give them your advice, but at times it’s best to practice good listening, let them know that you are there for them.

Especially, someone going through infertility, they probably have all the medical advice they need from their fertility team, so if they're venting to you, they probably just need their safe space, someone who can just be there to let them know that their pain is real, what they're going through is tough and that you're always there for them whenever they need emotional support.

“We don’t expect you to have answers for us. Heck, we’ve spent countless nights doing all the googling ourselves and we still don’t know 1/100 of it all. We just need someone there to listen.” - @Zanetka

2. Ask Them If They Need Anything

First and foremost, it is important to help someone understand that asking for help and support from their friends and family is completely okay.

If you’re really not sure how to support your friend, just ask. Try to be specific instead of just saying, “ Well, let me know how I can help. ”

This may make them feel like a burden.

Instead, ask when you can drop by with takeout. Ask if she’d like to go to a movie or even just go out for a quick cup of coffee at your favourite cafe.

Let her know that you can be there for her in the way she needs, and if she doesn’t explicitly tell you what that is, just keep showing up— when she is ready, she will ask for help.

3. Send A Care Package

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We turned to social media and asked women who have or are, undergoing IVF treatment what they would have liked in a care package from friends or family, this is what they had to say:

Catherin Baker @cattbaker

Putting together a care package for a friend is a great way to show support! A few generic ideas to include are fuzzy socks to keep her feet warm, decaf coffee, a key chain or bracelet as well as a book about hope or this nifty IVF planner . She highly recommends adding in an ice pack or two as this is a go-to for anyone undergoing IVF. Zanetka @Zanetka

Some of the most thoughtful gifts she received from her friends were a gratitude journal, fertility bracelet, a mug that had a fertility message on it & a little personalized IVF medication bag.

4. What You Shouldn’t Do?

Schedule and invite them to activities that might make them feel uncomfortable.

You may have the very best intentions but a friend or family member undergoing IVF might have made some lifestyle changes to improve their chances of a successful cycle.

Giving up alcohol might be a big one! Inviting your friend to happy hour might seem like a good idea, it may however have just the opposite effect and make her feel like she’s missing out.

Nobody is saying stop inviting someone places, but just try to be a little thoughtful of where she may prefer meeting up.

Instead of a big night out, could you book a mani and pedi or suggest brunch to catch up and try to take her mind off of it?

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Of course, someone may want to blow off steam or keep going with their ‘normal’ life, especially after receiving some disappointing news.

The key is: ask, listen, be flexible, and be open to your meet-ups looking a little different than they might usually.

Don’t Assume That They Would Rather Not Hear About Your Pregnancy Or Kids

In an effort to protect friends with infertility issues, sometimes people attempt to keep a new pregnancy secret. This probably isn’t a good idea, as it might even lead to your friend feeling ostracized.

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Instead, if you are planning a big pregnancy reveal at a barbeque or night out and you know that your friend is undergoing treatment, you may want to consider letting her know what your intentions are beforehand and this might be difficult for her.

Your friend is still happy for you, she wants to celebrate with you but an unexpected announcement might not be the best idea.

5. What You Shouldn’t Say To A Friend Undergoing IVF

‘just adpot’.

Adoption may be a wonderful option for some, but it definitely inst the answer to everyone’s fertility struggles. Suggesting adoption to a friend undergoing IVF in a very nonchalant way may actually come across as rude [even though this was not your intention].

Suggesting adoption may make your friend feel as if you have lost hope that her IVF cycle will be successful.

A key factor to always remember is that often people undergoing any form of fertility treatment have the fear and constant thought in their mind that they may not be able to have biological children.

Adoption is a beautiful way of building the family you have always dreamed of, but it isn’t for everyone.

‘Trust Me, You’re Lucky You Don’t Have Kids’

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We have all gone out to dinner and have sat at a table next to a screaming baby or toddler throwing food everywhere, lets not even start with the 6-hour flight with a crying baby!

We all know that babies cry and puke EVERYWHERE. We all know that children are loud and messy. We all know that your life changes drastically when you have children.

But DON’T downplay your friends’ situation by making your blessing sound like a curse. For the longest time, all they have wanted is that crying baby or messy toddler.

‘Whatever You Do, Don’t Give Up’

Although this seems like a reassuring thing to say, it, unfortunately, isn't. The main issue with this statement is that it sounds inevitable that things will work out in the end.

The truth, unfortunately, is they may not

The other problem with this statement is it implies " giving up " isn't an option.

Deciding to stop treatment, or even deciding not to pursue treatments at all, is sometimes not even a choice that people going through treatment can make for themselves.

The costs associated with IVF very quickly pile up and the reality is that many people simply can’t afford multiple cycles.

Don’t Talk About Stress Being The Driving Factor Behind Their Struggles With Fertility

We have all heard this numerous times before: “ Stop stressing, it will happen when it’s meant to happen”

This is probably one of the WORST things you could possibly say to someone who is undergoing any sort of fertility treatment.

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Contrary to what you might have read or heard, stress IS NOT the cause of most peoples struggles with fertility.

Although stress levels and mental health, in particular, need to be addressed and taken care of especially when dealing with any medical condition.

Next time you tell your friend or co-worker to “ just relax” be mindful of the context and how you might make them feel.

Don’t Keep On Asking How It’s Going

No one wants to feel like a charity case. Check-in often, but not so much that it’s obvious you’re worried or concerned about her.

And when you do check-in, unless she wants to talk about something, in particular, talk about the latest celebrity gossip, your latest binge-watch on Netflix, or the book you have just read, or maybe ask about other aspects of their life, like their career. There is still more to her life than her IVF treatment.

When you are feeling so encapsulated with one thing, it is often nice to have someone take your mind off of it, even if it is for a really short period of time.

Supporting a friend, co-worker, family member or partner through IVF is never easy, there's no right or wrong answer. An ELANZA coach can help support, guide and hold space during an IVF journey.

ELANZA coaches are specially trained to provide you with a framework that allows you to peel away the pressures from society, relationships, family, etc. to help you make choices that help you feel clarity and confidence in your future.

You might just realize how much an ELANZA coach can do for your entire life...

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The IVF Journey | Part Two: Pre-Treatment Screenings and Preparations

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A deeper look at the groundwork before the procedure, plus advice for patients on finding the support they need.

Expert Sources: Lauren Berson ; Banafsheh Kashani, MD, FACOG ; Jordan Rush, MD, OB-GYN

This article is the second part of our IVF series. Read part one here .

In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a type of assisted reproductive technology (ART) that involves using a combination of reproductive medicines and surgical procedures to help sperm fertilize an egg outside of the uterus; “in vitro” means outside the body. After fertilization, embryos are then placed directly into a patient’s uterus for possible conception.

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IVF is most commonly recommended for people with nonfunctional or missing fallopian tubes and partners with poor sperm quality. But other circumstances can lead to someone choosing assisted reproduction, including age, health issues (such as endometriosis), unexplained infertility, and as a way for same-sex couples to experience pregnancy and parenthood.

Before IVF treatment begins, patients will typically undergo a basic infertility evaluation that involves a series of tests, screenings, and conversations with their provider. For a better understanding of what to expect prior to the first treatment, we connected with fertility specialists Banafsheh Kashani, MD, FACOG , reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist in Orange County, California, and Jordan Rush, MD, an OB-GYN at Northside Women’s Specialists in Atlanta, Georgia and fellow with the National Institutes of Health, Endocrinology Diabetes & Metabolism on the next steps of the IVF journey.

Screenings and Tests  

In vitro fertilization is an involved process even before the actual first step of treatment (ovarian stimulation) occurs. From evaluating egg quantity to analyzing semen to testing for infectious diseases, there’s no shortage of prep that comes with getting ready for IVF to begin, but according to the experts, the payoff is beneficial.

“Pre-screening assessments are done to ensure that patients undergoing fertility treatments can receive the most optimized treatment protocol specific to their diagnosis. It is recommended that all these preimplantation assessments be completed before starting treatment,” says Dr. Kashani. “For example, if a partner has not yet completed a semen analysis, it would not be advisable to start treatments without this information, in the event that the sperm counts are too low to qualify for an intrauterine insemination.”

A patient’s reproductive endocrinologist (REI), also called a fertility specialist, performs the comprehensive evaluation and helps guide decisions on which tests are appropriate. While these deciding factors are unique to every patient, these are the common pre-screenings and tests to anticipate:

Semen analysis

A semen analysis is often the first step in IVF screening because it is non-invasive and can tell providers a great deal about the quality, activity (motility), and volume of a partner or donor’s sperm. One reason for conception issues is semen abnormality, and this analysis helps determine the likelihood that the sperm can cause a pregnancy.

Ovarian reserve testing

Ovarian reserve testing uses a combination of blood tests and a vaginal ultrasound to determine the number of eggs (follicles) that remain in a patient’s ovaries, as egg count is a strong predictor of fertility treatment success. This testing can also rule out potential hormonal imbalances that can impact the patient’s menstrual cycle.

Infectious disease screening

Just as pregnant people are advised to test for certain diseases before birth, the same recommendations apply to patients and their partners going through fertility treatment.

“Tests for HIV, syphilis, hepatitis A and B, gonorrhea, and chlamydia are performed on the patient and their partner or sperm donor, as well as an egg donor or surrogate, if applicable,” says Dr. Rush.

Certain diseases like chlamydia and gonorrhea can cause pelvic infection and tubal damage and must be treated with antibiotics before patients and their partners can begin treatment.

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Uterine exam

During this exam, a provider will examine the inside lining of a patient’s uterus to check if it’s healthy. This exam may involve a sonohysterography (where fluid is injected through the cervix into the uterus) and an ultrasound to analyze images of the uterine cavity. Another option (though more invasive) is performing a hysteroscopy, in which a thin, lighted telescope is inserted into the uterus and used to examine the uterine walls.

Pelvic ultrasound

If not done previously, Dr. Rush notes that a pelvic ultrasound is also performed during this time.

“A pelvic ultrasound to evaluate uterine anatomy is also necessary prior to embryo transfer to make sure the uterine cavity is normal and there are no uterine anomalies, fibroids, or polyps that may affect embryo transfer.”

Practice (mock) embryo transfer

Dr. Kashani explains that there are two scenarios that people refer to as a “mock embryo transfer.” These trial transfers are used to ensure patients and providers optimize efficiency on the day of the actual embryo transfer.

“One [scenario] is the process of going through an attempted embryo transfer procedure where a catheter is advanced into the cervix (the narrow tunnel or passageway into the uterus). This is to ‘map’ the pathway into the uterus to see if it is a ‘straight path’ or if there are any twists and turns that can make it more challenging to perform the embryo transfer. The embryo transfer day is such a big day that it is best to be prepared and have a trial run.

“Alternatively, people reference ‘mock embryo transfer cycles.’ This is when you take hormones that would be used for an embryo transfer cycle, and then test the uterine receptivity to ensure that the protocol of hormones used is appropriate and does not need to be adjusted. This is to help achieve a more personalized embryo transfer and optimize success rates.”

Note that a less than “straight” uterus, such as a tilted or retroverted uterus, does not affect a patient’s chance of successful implantation or pregnancy, though it is helpful for doctors to know what to expect before handing the precious cargo of an embryo.

Dr. Rush adds that the mock procedure also allows the physician to evaluate the best size catheter to use in advance, as well as optimal placement in the uterine cavity for the embryo.

Questions to Cover With Your Provider

Prepping for IVF comes with many queries and concerns. These suggested questions from the Mayo Clinic can help patients make important considerations and determine what needs to be discussed further with their partner or provider.

How many embryos will be transferred?

Age can affect the number of fertilized eggs a provider will transfer. Since the rate of implantation is lower for older women, a doctor may transfer more embryos for a higher chance of a successful pregnancy. In women under the age of 35, typically no more than two embryos are transferred at a time. Using a solo embryo may also be considered if the patient is determined to be a good candidate based on prognosis. For women 35 to 39, a total of up to three embryos is recommended for each transfer, and the number of embryos used can continue to increase with age.

What is the policy concerning extra embryos?

There are options for patients with leftover embryos, including freezing and storing the embryos for future use, donating unused frozen embryos to another couple or research facility, or discarding the unused embryos. Having access to frozen embryos can minimize the costs of future IVF cycles, though patients will need to factor in facility and storage fees.

What are the chances/risks of a multiple pregnancy?

The odds of having a multiple gestation pregnancy through IVF are roughly 30% on average across all age groups. In comparison, twins naturally occur in about one in 250 pregnancies, triplets in about one in 10,000 pregnancies, and quadruplets in about one in 700,000 pregnancies.

A multiple pregnancy poses potential risks to both the birthing parent and unborn babies, including hypertension, birth defects, and preterm birth . Partners should discuss how they will handle a multiple pregnancy, as well as plans for parenting more than one child in the future.

What are the potential complications associated with using donor eggs, sperm, or embryos, or a gestational carrier?

While all patients hope for a smooth experience, it’s still imperative to understand the emotional trials and legal ramifications surrounding using donors. A trained counselor with experience in donor issues—such as a gestational carrier encountering health problems from the pregnancy or wanting to keep the baby after birth—can help patients navigate the spectrum of possibilities (ask your provider for a trusted recommendation). In addition, if using a gestational carrier, an attorney may be needed to assist partners in becoming legal parents of an implanted embryo.

According to Dr. Rush, using donors in IVF can come with potential health complications for the birth parent. “There is some data that shows patients using donor eggs have higher rates of pregnancy complications, including hypertension. [Additionally], sperm donation may create psychological issues and unforeseen genetic diseases; of course, this also applies to egg and embryo donation.”

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How to Prepare at Home

There’s plenty a patient can do outside of the clinic to improve their chances of fertility.

“It’s best to prep your body about one to two months before starting IVF,” says Dr. Kashani.  “Ideally, try to follow a Mediterranean diet which includes foods such as fish, avocado, olive oil, and vegetables. Additionally, antioxidants are great, and these can be found in blueberries, pomegranates, and acai. You can also take CoEnzyme Q10, which is a supplement that is an antioxidant and can help optimize egg quality.”

She also states that caffeine consumption should be minimized, and alcohol and sweetened drinks should be avoided prior to an IVF cycle.

Dr. Rush adds that travel to any country or region with an increased risk of acquiring certain infectious diseases should be avoided, as this could impact or delay fertility treatment.

Finding ways to minimize stress before and during treatment is an important priority, says Dr. Kashani. “A moderate amount of physical activity and stress-reducing exercises such as yoga are great. Stress can negatively affect the response to the hormones used for fertility treatments, and therefore you should try to plan your treatment cycle at a time that is not very stressful at work or home. In addition, sleep is also critical, and having regular sleep cycles can benefit your fertility and response to the hormones used for fertility treatments.”

Minimizing stress is hard in the best of circumstances, but especially difficult in a situation involving infertility with such high stakes. Walking, journaling, spending time outdoors, gardening, reading, and even intentional deep breathing are all ways to help reduce stress.

Dr. Kashani also encourages patients to stock up on pregnancy tests before the IVF process gets going, specifically ones that deliver quick results. “ First Response Early Result Pregnancy Tests are a great option as users can get results six days sooner rather than waiting to see if a period is missed, helping to reduce the stress of waiting.”

Perhaps one of the most daunting factors in IVF prep is the cost of treatment . A single IVF cycle can range from $15,000 to $30,000, depending on the patient’s individual needs. While these numbers are intimidating, both Dr. Rush and Dr. Kashani say there are financial assistance resources to consider.

“There are many grants available that can be used towards treatment,” claims Dr. Kashani. “Additionally, [patients can] contact their clinic’s financial team to determine if there are any payment or funding programs/loans available to use for IVF treatments. Patients can also contact their employer’s human resources department to see if they have any options for fertility benefits for treatments. Sometimes, [employers] can consider adding on this benefit for employees.”

Dr. Rush recommends that patients also check out RESOLVE , a national organization that serves as an umbrella resource for acquiring information on financial support for infertility treatment, including insurance coverage, scholarships, financing opportunities, military personnel options, and more.

Relationships

Undergoing in vitro can be a trying time, and patients and their partners may feel a wide range of emotions throughout the process. Establishing good communication ahead of time will prove to be an essential tool that can help partners express their emotions and feel understood and supported during treatment.

“It is beneficial for couples to be open and honest with each other about what they are comfortable with in terms of treatment, as having a unified view on treatment goals is very important” explains Dr. Kashani. “Also, I advise partners to be supportive of one another and understand that fertility treatments and hormones can cause irritability and mood swings. It’s important to be patient with one another and know that there will be ups and downs.”

For some couples, the tension of treatment may require professional psychological help to get through it, and partners should have a plan for seeking these resources if needed.

“Infertility can put a lot of stress on a relationship and when couples are unsuccessful in becoming pregnant, often the relationship encounters severe difficulties,” says Dr. Rush. “Most fertility centers offer psychological support to couples undergoing fertility treatment as it impacts the couple [in many ways].”

Finding Support Before Your First IVF Appointment

IVF presents obstacles unique to each person. Patients should seek the support they need at any time without judgment—and hopefully, gain some solidarity along the way.

“Trying to conceive—especially through IVF—can feel isolating and leave people scratching their heads, and unfortunately, there is no one-size-fits-all approach,” says Lauren Berson, founder and CEO of Conceive , a digital health company changing fertility outcomes through individualized expert guidance, tailored fertility plans, and communal support groups.

“If you map out the IVF patient’s journey, it’s arguably one of the most complex health care journeys that fundamentally requires highly individualized guidance. On average, a patient sees three to five specialists and does multiple treatments and tests. And existing support from Google rabbit holes renders conflicting advice—as do different doctors, spurring patients to wonder if they should get a second or third opinion.

“Fertility clinics offer expert guidance, but it’s not in their business model to recognize the power of community. With only 1,800 reproductive endocrinologists in the country, many clinics also have long waiting lists. And even when you have care, it’s challenging to get your questions answered with the sense of urgency you need.”

Berson’s own multi-year journey through infertility, feelings of isolation, stigma, and shame, in combination with a lack of trusted resources in the IVF space, led her to found Conceive.

“While we serve members going through all kinds of fertility journeys, we find many come to Conceive when they’re undergoing IVF—often because they can’t find the support and information they need elsewhere,” explains Berson. “In vitro fertilization is a highly technical process with lots of things to interpret, and [our team] can be their second set of eyes, their gut-check, and the support system that helps them learn, and ultimately get results.”

And when it comes to those results, Berson says her team’s efforts are working. A 2021 closed beta test revealed that 27% of their members uncovered new diagnoses, 64% became pregnant, and 90% of members felt supported in their journey, which Berson says is a driving force in her work.

“We want to do [the hard work] for our members—bringing them the community, support, and trusted resources, so all they have to do is focus on taking care of themselves.”

No matter where patients find community during their IVF journey, the important thing is to not go through this complicated and emotional process alone, and to know they deserve support every step of the way.

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Navigating the IVF Journey: How Male Support Can Help

In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a complex process that can be emotionally and physically demanding for couples. While much attention is placed on the role of the female partner in IVF, the importance of male support throughout this journey is often overlooked. Understanding and addressing the unique challenges men face, both emotionally and practically, can be instrumental in helping couples navigate the IVF process more effectively.

Understanding the IVF Process

The IVF process involves multiple steps, including ovarian stimulation, egg retrieval, fertilization, embryo development, and embryo transfer. Each of these stages presents its own set of challenges and uncertainties. As a man, it is crucial to familiarize yourself with the process and actively participate in discussions with your partner and healthcare providers. This knowledge will not only provide you with a better understanding of what to expect but also help you support your partner emotionally and practically.

During the ovarian stimulation phase, your partner will undergo hormone injections to stimulate the ovaries to produce multiple eggs. This process can be physically and emotionally demanding for her. As her partner, you can offer support by learning about the medications she will be taking, helping her with the injections if needed, and providing a comforting presence during this time.

Once the eggs have matured, the next step is the egg retrieval procedure. This is a minor surgical procedure that is typically done under sedation. It involves the insertion of a needle into the ovaries to collect the eggs. While your partner may experience some discomfort and bloating afterward, you can assist her by ensuring she rests, providing pain relief if necessary, and taking care of any household chores or responsibilities to allow her to recover.

After the eggs have been retrieved, they are fertilized with sperm in a laboratory. This is known as the fertilization stage. The embryos are then monitored for several days to assess their development and quality. During this time, it is important to be patient and understanding, as the waiting can be stressful for both you and your partner. Keep the lines of communication open and offer reassurance and support.

The Emotional Impact of IVF

IVF can be emotionally taxing for both partners. The uncertainty, disappointment, and frustration that come with failed cycles or unexpected setbacks can take a toll on mental well-being. As a male partner, it is essential to acknowledge and validate your own emotions, as well as those of your partner. Communicate openly and empathetically, allowing space for both of you to express your fears, hopes, and concerns. Remember, emotional support goes beyond just being present; active listening and understanding are key.

It is important to recognize that the emotional impact of IVF may vary for each person. Some individuals may feel a sense of loss or grief if the treatment is not successful, while others may experience anxiety and stress throughout the process. Be mindful of these emotions and offer support in whatever way feels most appropriate for you and your partner. This could involve seeking counseling or therapy, joining support groups, or simply finding time to engage in activities that bring you both joy and relaxation.

The Physical Demands of IVF

While women bear the brunt of the physical demands of IVF, men can also play an important role in supporting their partner’s physical well-being. Help with medication administration, accompany your partner to medical appointments, and provide practical support during the recovery period after procedures. By actively participating in these aspects of the IVF journey, you can alleviate some of the physical burdens and strengthen your bond as a couple.

During the recovery period after the egg retrieval procedure, your partner may experience abdominal discomfort, bloating, and fatigue. Offer assistance with household chores, meal preparation, and any other tasks that may be physically challenging for her. Additionally, encourage her to rest and prioritize self-care during this time. Small gestures of kindness, such as preparing her favorite meals or giving her gentle massages, can go a long way in helping her feel supported and cared for.

As the embryo transfer approaches, your partner may feel a mix of excitement and anxiety. Accompany her to the appointment and provide a calming presence. After the transfer, she may be advised to take it easy and avoid strenuous activities. Help create a relaxing environment at home, offer to run errands, and remind her to take her prescribed medications as instructed. Your involvement in these practical aspects can make a significant difference in her overall well-being.

The Importance of Male Support in IVF

Male support plays a crucial role in the success of the IVF journey. It encompasses both emotional and practical aspects, offering a solid foundation from which couples can navigate the challenges and uncertainties they may encounter.

Emotional Support: A Key Role for Men

Emotional support from male partners is essential throughout the IVF process. Your presence, understanding, and empathy can provide a much-needed source of comfort and reassurance to your partner. Be available to listen, offer encouragement, and validate her emotions. Being a supportive and compassionate figure will help your partner feel more secure and less alone in this journey.

During the emotional rollercoaster of IVF, it is important to remember that your partner may experience a wide range of emotions. From excitement and hope to anxiety and disappointment, these emotions can be overwhelming. By being there for her, you can help her navigate through these ups and downs with strength and resilience.

Additionally, male support can also help alleviate the stress and anxiety that often accompany the IVF process. By providing a calming presence and a shoulder to lean on, you can help create a sense of stability and security for your partner. Your unwavering support can make all the difference in her ability to cope with the challenges of IVF.

Practical Support: How Men Can Help

Practical support is equally important when it comes to navigating IVF. As a male partner, there are several ways you can lend a hand. Taking on additional household responsibilities, organizing medical documents and appointments, and researching IVF-related topics are just a few examples. By actively participating in the practical aspects, you can minimize your partner’s stress levels and demonstrate your commitment to the IVF journey.

One practical way to support your partner is by helping her maintain a healthy lifestyle. Encourage her to eat nutritious meals, exercise regularly, and get enough rest. By taking care of her physical well-being, you can contribute to her overall fertility and increase the chances of a successful IVF outcome.

Furthermore, being involved in the logistical aspects of IVF can help alleviate the burden on your partner. By taking charge of organizing medical documents and appointments, you can ensure that everything is in order and reduce her workload. This will not only make the process smoother but also show your dedication and commitment to the IVF journey.

Researching IVF-related topics is another way you can provide practical support. By staying informed about the latest advancements, treatment options, and potential challenges, you can be a valuable source of knowledge and guidance for your partner. This will empower both of you to make informed decisions and navigate the IVF journey with confidence.

In conclusion, male support is vital in the IVF journey. By offering emotional and practical support, you can create a strong foundation for your partner and increase the chances of a successful outcome. Remember, your presence, understanding, and active involvement can make a world of difference in this transformative journey towards parenthood.

Communication During the IVF Journey

Effective communication is the glue that holds relationships together during challenging times. Open and honest dialogue between partners is crucial for establishing a united front and fostering emotional intimacy.

Open Dialogue: The Foundation of Support

Creating an environment of open dialogue sets the stage for mutual support and understanding. Regularly check in with your partner to discuss fears, hopes, and concerns. Encourage her to express her emotions, and never undermine or dismiss her feelings. By fostering a safe space for communication, you can navigate the complexities of IVF as a team.

Listening: A Crucial Skill for Male Partners

Active listening is a skill that every male partner should strive to develop during the IVF journey. Allow your partner to express her thoughts and emotions freely, without interruption or judgment. Be present in the moment, fully engaged in the conversation. By actively listening, you demonstrate your commitment to understanding your partner’s experience and provide valuable emotional support.

Overcoming Challenges Together

The IVF journey is not without its challenges. Couples may face failed cycles, unexpected setbacks, or feelings of despair. However, by approaching these challenges together, couples can emerge stronger and more empowered.

Dealing with IVF Failures as a Couple

Experiencing a failed IVF cycle can be devastating for both partners. It is important to acknowledge and process these emotions together. Allow yourselves time to grieve, reflect, and heal. Seek professional support if needed, as therapy can provide a safe space for processing complex emotions and developing coping mechanisms. Remember that setbacks are a normal part of the IVF journey, and with resilience and support, success can still be within reach.

Celebrating Successes: The Joy of Shared Triumph

IVF is a journey marked by both challenges and moments of triumph. Celebrate your successes, regardless of their scale. Small victories, such as positive test results or milestone achievements, deserve recognition and celebration. By sharing in these moments of joy, you strengthen your emotional connection and reinforce your commitment to one another.

Maintaining Relationship Health During IVF

Amidst the intensity of the IVF journey, it is vital to prioritize the health of your relationship. Nurturing your bond allows you to weather the storms and emerge stronger together.

Balancing IVF and Relationship Needs

IVF demands a significant amount of time, energy, and focus. However, it is important to strike a balance between the IVF process and your relationship. Set aside dedicated time for connection and intimacy, away from the stress of appointments and treatments. Engage in activities that bring you joy and allow you to recharge as a couple. Remember, nurturing your relationship is just as essential as navigating the IVF journey.

Keeping the Spark Alive Amidst IVF Stress

Stress is an inevitable part of the IVF journey, but it doesn’t have to overpower your relationship. Find ways to cultivate joy and lightheartedness amidst the stress. Engage in activities that bring you both happiness and help you relax. Maintain open lines of communication regarding your feelings, fears, and desires. By actively tending to the emotional and physical elements of your relationship, you can keep the spark alive and strengthen your bond.

In conclusion, male support is an invaluable asset throughout the IVF journey. By understanding the process, providing emotional and practical support, fostering effective communication, overcoming challenges together, and prioritizing relationship health, male partners can play a crucial role in helping couples navigate this intricate path. With unity, strength, and unwavering support, couples can increase their chances of success and find solace in their shared journey.

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Our Ask the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. This month we are thrilled to be joined by Alex Taylor who has been a yoga teacher for over 11 years specialising in fertility and wellness.  She has been supporting women and men on their fertility journey through wellness days and workshops which help prepare the body for undergoing the physical and emotional challenges of an IVF cycle and fertility treatment.

Coping with infertility is no easy task and the immense disappointment when treatments are unsuccessful can leave you feeling that your efforts towards conceiving are exhaustive.  Studies have shown that low-impact yoga can significantly increase conception success rates in women undergoing In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) treatment. When you are investing significant amounts of time, money and emotion into an IVF cycle, you want to do everything you can to make it successful.

In many cases, Yoga can be the natural technique to enhance fertility when combined with other treatments. It doesn’t directly improve sperm or egg quality but is important for a fertility-promoting lifestyle. In fact, there are certain postures that can help improve your fertility and the overall health and Science supports yoga's role in conception. A study found yoga improved success rates in couples using assisted reproductive technologies (ART). Yoga helps patients with infertility manage complex emotions during fertility treatments

If you are looking to embrace the transformative power of yoga and allow it to support you on your path to parenthood then join us for this essential live event and don’t miss out on the opportunity to ask your questions directly to our expert.

Fertility treatment can be challenging regardless of where you are and what stage or age you are, but our experts are here to help and support your journey by answering the questions that are important to you.

February 20, 2024

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Join us and Rob Smith, Clinic Director at Aria Fertility, who will be sharing his expertise on everything you need to know about donor conception. Whether you're exploring donor conception options or simply seeking more information, donor conception, including sperm donation, egg donation, and embryo donation, often serves as a beacon of hope for many in the LGBTQ community. However, it's essential to recognize that choosing a donor involves careful consideration and understanding of both short- and long-term implications.

January 23, 2024

Ask the Expert Event: January: Understanding Functional medicine and testing: How fit are you for fertility treatment?

Date: 23 January 2024

Time: 7-7.30pm

Host: Emma Cannon, Fertility Specialist

Expert: Dr Amalia Annaradnam, GP & Hormone Specialist, and one of the UK’s leading bio-identical hormone replacement therapy specialists

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Our Ask the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. This month we are thrilled to be joined by Dr Amalia Annaradnam, a GP and hormone specialist who is passionate about helping patients find root causes to their health concerns and treating naturally whenever possible.  With her unrivalled clinical expertise, Amalia combines a more holistic approach to fertility health.  If you’re having trouble getting pregnant naturally, you’ve been diagnosed with unexplained infertility, or you want to optimise your body before trying to conceive, to increase success of a sustained and healthy pregnancy then it is worth looking at a functional approach to fertility.

Functional medicine and testing are a new branch of medicine which is becoming more and more popular particularly because it focuses on the body as a whole rather than separate organs and systems.  It is an approach that involves finding the root cause of fertility imbalances through a patient-centric and science-backed method. This is done through various investigations via targeted testing.  Amalia will be offering advice and guidance on what you need to consider if you are looking at undertaking functional testing and how you can improve your chances of getting pregnant.  Don’t miss out on the opportunity to ask your questions on anything to do with this form of testing.

January 4, 2024

Date: Thursday 4th January 2024

Host: Charlotte Gentry, Founder & CEO, The IVF Network

Expert: Melanie Brown, Nutritional Therapist, Specialist in Fertility, IVF and Pregnancy

Our Members Virtual Community Catch-Up sessions are a safe space for members to connect, share stories, ask questions, and gain support from other members of The IVF Network who know exactly what you’re going through. This month we will be looking at kick starting the new year with a “targeted nutritional plan to help boost your fertility”. We are delighted to be joined by Melanie Brown who is a specialist nutritional expert with over twenty years’ experience working with both men and women to improve their fertility through diet and lifestyle.  Melanie will share her knowledge on how what you eat can affect your fertility and her top tips on how you can boost your fertility through diet.

Nutrition affects fertility in a huge number of ways and it’s important to understand that the food we eat affects all our cells – and that eggs and sperm are no different from any other cell.  If this is one area you haven’t focused on since you started your fertility journey then now is the ideal time to look at implementing a good nutrition plan to support your treatment.  If you are unsure where to start, then Mel can help you understand the specific foods that have been shown to help with the outcome of IVF.  Plus, don’t miss out on the opportunity to ask your questions.

This is a welcoming, confidential, nurturing and judgement free space for women impacted by fertility issues. We hope you can join us to meet other members and gain support from The IVF Network community.

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We’ve partnered with ScreenMe, who are committed to exploring innovative avenues in reproductive health to empower individuals on their fertility journeys. New research highlights the significant impact of reproductive microbiomes on various aspects of reproductive health, from IVF success to addressing issues like unexplained infertility, miscarriage risk, infections, and more.  

The vaginal microbiome, shaped by factors such as age, diet, lifestyle, and hormonal balance, is a key player in fertility.  

Join us and our panel of experts as they delve into the latest findings, discussing how reproductive microbiome testing can offer valuable insights and support for individuals on their fertility journeys.

Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network Panellist: Jonathan Ramsay, Male Fertility Specialist

Jonathan Ramsay is a urologist who specialises exclusively in the diagnosis and treatment of sub fertile and infertile men. His approach is to treat the man to improve chances of natural and assisted fertility outcomes.  As part of Men’s Health Week Mr Ramsay joins us to share his expertise and advice on male fertility.

Chair: Laura-Rose Thorogood, Founder, LGBT Mummies

Panellist: Carole Gilling-Smith, CEO, Founder & Medical Director, The Agora Clinic

To celebrate Pride month we are delighted to be joined by Laura-Rose Thorogood and Carole Gilling-Smith who will share with us their expert advice on the various pathways available for LGBTQI+ families and what fertility options and treatment processes are available. They will consider what are the barriers & implications that impact your journey to parenthood for LGBTQ+ people and look at legal considerations.

Donor Conception Awareness: Truth and Transparency Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network Panellist: Laura-Rose Thorogood, Founder, LGBT Mummies

To celebrate Donor Conception Awareness Day we are delighted to be joined by Laura-Rose Thorogood, Founder, LGBT Mummies. Laura-Rose will share her own donor conception journey with us and discuss key considerations before embarking on donor conception including; Why it is important to talk about donor conception before trying to conceive as a person/couple/co parent; Legal implications to consider; Choosing a donor; Talking to your children about donor conception.

Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network Panellist: Amanda Tozer, Gynaecologist & Reproductive Medicine Specialist, Aria Fertility Panellist: Adrian Lower FRCOG

Endometriosis does not necessarily cause infertility but there is an association with fertility problems, although the cause is not fully established. In this session our leading experts will discuss why endometriosis can cause fertility problems and what treatments can help with getting pregnant if endometriosis is causing fertility problems.

We are delighted to be joined by leading experts Amanda Tozer , Gynaecologist & Reproductive Medicine Specialist at Aria Fertility and Adrian Lower , a highly respected and experienced gynaecologist who has specialised in the field of Reproductive Medicine for the past 30 years

Amanda Tozer is a consultant gynaecologist and sub-specialist in reproductive medicine at Aria Fertility, in Central London. Amanda has spent more than 20 years assisting couples experiencing infertility and trouble conceiving (subfertility). She is incredibly knowledgeable in all aspects of fertility and provides a wide range of services for assisted conception and fertility preservation, including egg freezing, in vitro fertilisation (IVF) and genetic testing.

Adrian Lower is widely recognised as one of the best fertility specialists in London and in addition to providing a bespoke assisted conception service he is a highly accomplished reproductive surgeon with particular expertise in the treatment uterine fibroids and Asherman’s syndrome. He is also highly experienced in gynaecological ultrasound scanning and is able to offer same day scans using a state-of-the-art 3D ultrasound scanner in his office. 

DATE: Wednesday 22nd March Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network Panellist: Carole Gilling-Smith, CEO, Founder & Medical Director, The Agora Clinic Panellist: Vanessa Tucker, Nutritional Consultant, Wild Nutrition

Polycystic ovary syndrome is a very common condition affecting the function of a woman’s ovaries and can lead to difficulty getting pregnant, but the good news is that it's treatable. Our leading experts will discuss what PCOS is, the symptoms and causes, and what treatment there is for PCOS if you are trying to conceive. We will also discuss the nutrients, supplements and herbs that can support PCOS and fertility.

We are delighted to be joined by leading experts Carole Gilling-Smith, CEO, Founder & Medical Director, The Agora Clinic and Vanessa Tucker of Wild Nutrition.

Carole Gilling-Smith graduated in Medicine from Cambridge in 1984 and is a Fellow of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (FRCOG). Over her career she has acquired extensive knowledge and experience in the field of reproductive medicine and infertility.

Carole was awarded a Medical Research Council Training Fellowship in Reproductive Medicine in 1990 and completed her PhD thesis on the genetics of polycystic ovary syndrome whilst working as a Clinical Fellow in Reproductive Medicine at St Mary’s Hospital in London. She pursued further research there on pelvic pain and recurrent miscarriage as a Clinical Lecturer and Senior Registrar before being appointed Director of the Chelsea & Westminster Assisted Conception Unit in 2000. There she developed the UK’s first fertility programme for HIV infected patients and remains a national and international expert on the management of patients with viral illness who are trying to conceive safely.

With more than 14 years experience in women’s health, Vanessa Tucker is a registered naturopathic nutrition consultant, with a BSc (Hons) in Health Science in Complementary Medicine, and diplomas in Naturopathy and Herbal Medicine. Vanessa has particular expertise in PCOS, reproductive health, metabolic and glycemic control and thyroid health. Vanessa’s herbal medicine training has provided her with a deep understanding of plant biochemistry and the clinical benefits for PCOS and reproductive health. Vanessa is a nutrition consultant for Wild Nutrition’s online consultation services and frequently asked to comment on PCOS and reproductive health in the press.

To celebrate the national day for girls and women in science day we are delighted that Emma Whitney, Laboratory Manager, The Evewell Clinic has joined us to share her career journey.

Emma Whitney is the laboratory manager at The Evewell Clinic in London. Emma is also aka @emmatheembryologist on Instagram.

With nearly 20 years of practical IVF laboratory experience, Emma specialises in pre-implantation genetic testing of embryos with a passion to prevent the transmission of inherited genetic disease and enhancing the capabilities of embryo selection.

Emma’s commitment to genetics, coupled with her multitude of experiences - allows for a pragmatic and honest approach when discussing embryology.

Emma believes IVF patients should have the opportunity to understand what goes on in an IVF laboratory. Her goal is to help patients alleviate some of the stress and anxiety caused by so many unknowns.

As we enter the new year when many of us begin to look at our health and nutrition we are delighted to be joined by Mel Brown, Nutritional Therapist, Specialist in Fertility, IVF and Pregnancy. The session discusses the most important things to consider with nutrition and how it can make a difference. We look at when you should start your fertility nutrition journey, the ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, supplements and, other things outside of nutrition to consider such as mental health/fitness, to do in line with a nutrition plan.

Melanie Brown specialises in pre conceptual and pregnancy nutrition, and helping you to prepare for pregnancy. Mel’s two decades of experience working with doctors, gynaecologists, urologists, midwives and IVF specialists has given me a unique insight into the process of fertility treatment, and an understanding and empathy of how being unable to conceive affects the whole of your life. She is not a hard core kill joy; she enjoys wine, chocolate, roast potatoes and croissants. She wants client to feel that they are adding good things to their diet, not taking them away and generally making life a misery! She believes that by giving clients a rationale, so they can understand why some things are not so great for you, this makes it much easier to adapt to new, healthier habits.

Chair: Emma Cannon, Fertility Mentor & Adviser

Speaker: Melanie Brown, Nutritional Therapist, Specialist in Fertility, IVF and Pregnancy

A cancer diagnosis of any kind is a traumatic experience. Although fertility normally isn’t the initial concern, it is increasingly an important consideration; particularly since life expectancy post cancer diagnosis has significantly increased.

Some cancer treatments will impact short and long term fertility; either due to toxicity of chemotherapy or removal of ovaries (to reduce oestrogen). Male fertility may also be impacted by cancer treatments

This discussion, with leading Gynaecologist, Miss Sara Matthews & Emma Cannon, Fertility Mentor, will provide invaluable information to those facing cancer treatment who have yet to conceive or may want to extend their family post cancer treatment.

We are privileged to be joined by Sara Matthews.  Miss Matthews has one of the broadest experiences of all consultants in the UK in the field of Fertility Medicine, having worked in a number of the largest, most established and highly regarded fertility units in the country.  She is now based solely at the Portland Hospital for Women and Children in London, where she has had her own very successful independent practice since 2008.

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Date: 12 December 2023

Time : 7-7.30pm (30 mins)

Host: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network

Expert: Emma Cannon, Fertility Specialist

In the latest in our Ask the Expert series we will be looking at yow to get through the festive season when you are struggling with your fertility and what emotional support is needed. We are delighted to be joined by leading fertility specialist and IVF Network advisory board member, Emma Cannon.

The festive season can be particularly difficult if you're facing infertility issues or struggling to conceive.  Balancing a fertility journey and festive festivities isn’t always easy, and it can feel lonely and isolating - but it can be done!  Our Ask the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility experts and get coping tips and advice.  Emma will share her suggestions on how to get through December while facing fertility challenges and guide you through her pragmatic coping mechanisms for men and women whatever stage you are at in your fertility journey.

The holidays can amplify all of your insecurities and anxiety about struggling to conceive – but help is on hand. The IVF Network has a whole host of information designed to help you navigate every stage of your journey.  Ask the Expert is for you to get the answers you need from the experts.

Date: 21 November

Time: 1-1.30pm

Host: Jennifer Elworthy, Career & Fertility Coach and IVF Network Advisory Board Member

Expert: Andrew Coutts, Chief Executive Officer, International Fertility Company

Our Ask the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. This month we are thrilled to be joined by Andrew Coutts who has worked in the fertility space for over 12 years.  He set up the International Fertility Company five years ago and has visited over 200 fertility clinics worldwide.  In the last year alone IFC has supported patients from over 140 countries who sought advice about travelling for treatment.

Andrew will be sharing his own story and offering advice and guidance on what you need to consider if you are looking at traveling for your IVF treatment.  In recent years, more and more couples are seeking treatment overseas and there are plenty of issues to understand and navigate.  Don’t miss out on the opportunity to ask your questions on anything to do with accessing fertility treatment abroad.

Fertility treatment can be challenging regardless of where you are and what stage or age you are, but our experts are here to help and support your journey by answering the questions that are important to you.  

Date: Tuesday 24 October

Time : 7pm-7.30pm (30 mins)

Chair: Emma Cannon

Expert: Mike Berkley , Founder & Director, The Berkley Centre for Reproductive Wellness & board-certified herbalist and licensed acupuncturist

In the latest in our Ask the Expert series we are delighted to be joined by leading holistic therapy and acupuncture expert, Mike Berkley.

Our Ask the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists.  Mike will share his story in overcoming fertility issues and his expertise in the use of and benefits of herbal, acupuncture and holistic treatments to help with reproductive disorders.   He will explain how acupuncture, herbs and low-light work and what they can and can’t do.  Mike will also discuss how to integrate these treatments into your journey regardless of the stage you are at or what issues you might have encountered.

There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to mike not just on how an east meets west approach can help you but also any fertility questions you have for him on this important topic.

Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network

Leading Expert: Dr Irfana Kiota FRCOG, Fertility Consultant & Director, IVF Matters

In the latest in our Ask the Expert series we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert, Dr Irfana Kiota. Our Ask the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists.  

Irfana will share her expertise on preserving your fertility through egg freezing.  She will dispel the misconceptions about women who want to freeze their eggs and talk through the process and what is involved.  It is a lot easier than many think and as awareness is growing about this procedure as a real option for all women, this is a great opportunity to understand where to start and how it can improve your chances in having a baby.

There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Irfana not just on accessing the right experts to support your journey but any fertility questions you have for her on this important topic.

Ask the Expert: Emma Cannon, Fertility & women’s health expert & Founder of the Emma Cannon Clinic Thursday 17th August 7:00pm – 7:45pm Virtual Live Session

Chair: Charlotte Gentry, CEO & Founder, The IVF Network

‍ Leading Expert: Emma Cannon, Fertility & women’s health expert & Founder of the Emma Cannon Clinic.

For this month’s Ask the Expert we are delighted to be joined by Emma Cannon , Fertility & women’s health expert & Founder of the Emma Cannon Clinic. Our Ask the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. Emma Cannon  is a fertility mentor, advisor, acupuncturist and author of 5 books on Fertility. Emma has been supporting individuals and couples on the path to becoming parents for over 25 years; her aim is to help people to become parents from a place of health and balance. Emma works in a unique integrated way that combines the best of modern research, treatments and diagnostics with complementary therapies and traditional practices. She also has a special interest in immunology and the role the immune system has on fertility and also the impact of trauma, past and present. Emma holds a bachelor of Science Degree and is a member of The British Acupuncturist Council.

For this months Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by Phoebe Babbington, Deputy Laboratory Manager at Care Fertility.

Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists.

Phoebe Babbington completed her embryology training in the NHS in Manchester. Here she graduated from the Scientist Training Programme as Registered Clinical Embryologist in 2015. Since then she has worked for CARE Fertility, in both their Tunbridge Wells and London clinics. After a few years in the London clinic Phoebe become a biopsy practitioner, and more recently promoted to the Deputy Lab manager in 2021. The lab she works in does approximatley 800 cycles per year, of which a large proportion of patients have PGT-A cycles.

Tuesday 20th June 7:00pm – 7:45pm Virtual Live Session

Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network Leading Expert: Sara J Matthews, Gynaecology and Fertility Consultant

For this months Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert Sara J Matthews . Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists.

Sara J Matthews has one of the broadest experiences of all consultants in the UK in the field of Fertility Medicine, having worked in a number of the largest, most established and highly regarded fertility units in the country.

Miss Matthews trained with Sir Robert Winston at the Hammersmith hospital in London, then in Leeds at the General infirmary and St James University teaching hospitals, where she did her Masters degree. RCOG subspecialty training in Reproductive Medicine and Surgery followed at Addenbrookes Hospital in Cambridge, in conjunction with the University of Cambridge. Miss Matthews was an undergraduate tutor for several Cambridge colleges, and continued her IVF training at the famous Bourn hall clinic.

Subsequent consultant positions include clinics in both the NHS and private sectors: ISIS fertility clinic (now Bourn Hall) in Colchester, The Bridge Centre in London, The London Fertility Clinic, and CRM London (now CARE London).

Miss Matthews became the youngest Medical Director of an IVF unit in the UK when she was appointed at the Homerton Foundation University NHS Hospital Trust in London in 2005.

She is now based solely at the Portland Hospital for Women and Children in London, where she has had her own very successful independent practice since 2008.

Miss Matthews is a senior gynaecologist as well as a fertility specialist. She trained in psychiatry and genitourinary medicine, holds the MSSVD certificate for the management of STIs, and is a qualified Forensic Medical Officer (trained in the assessment and care of victims of sexual assault). She is an advanced laparoscopic surgeon (MAS level 2), and certified aesthetic gynaecologist.

A number of TV and radio programmes, and national women’s magazine articles have included Miss Matthews over the years, and she made headline news worldwide last year as the doctor responsible for the first woman to have a baby using transplanted ovarian tissue that had been frozen before puberty. She continues to be involved in cutting edge research in this exciting area of fertility preservation.

Ongoing research projects at the clinic include the use of poppy seed oil infusions (lipiodal) to improve implantation for women having IVF, and the efficacy of radio frequency treatment (ThermiVa) to treat vaginal dryness in women with breast cancer on Tamoxifen.

For this months Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert Ed Coats . Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. Ed Coats will share his advice on Fertility over 40.

There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Ed Coats.

Friday 31st March

Chair: Emma Cannon , Fertility Mentor & Advisor

Leading Specialist: Andrew Flower PhD, Acupuncture & Chinese Herbal Medicine, Teacher at White Crane Academy

We are delighted to be joined by leading Acupuncture & Chinese Herbal Medicine expert, Andrew Flower who will share his expertise on how Chinese Herbal Medicine can support those with Endometriosis.

Andrew Flower has been practising acupuncture and Chinese herbal medicine (CHM) since 1992. On graduating he gained a wide range of experience working in private practice, and within the UK National Health Service and voluntary sector working with people with HIV/AIDS and with drug and alcohol addictions.

He is a past President of the UK Register of Chinese Herbal Medicine and has advised the European Herbal Traditional Practitioners Association on developing research strategies in Europe.

In 2009 Andrew completed his PhD at The University of Southampton exploring the role of Chinese herbal medicine in the treatment of endometriosis.

He has published a number of peer-reviewed papers relating to Chinese medicine research, including two Cochrane systematic reviews.

He co-ordinated an EU project that prepared guidelines to improve the quality of clinical trials into Chinese medicine.

In 2011 he was awarded a 5 year NIHR Post doctoral Fellowship to investigate Chinese herbs for the treatment of recurrent urinary tract infections (RUTIs) that has resulted in the RUTI trial that started recruiting in Feb 2016.

He has a special interest in providing supportive treatment for people with cancer.

He is a Founding member of the White Crane Academy of CHM and is passionate about the therapeutic potential of herbal medicines and the importance of rigorous training to ensure this potential is realised.

Monday 20th March 7:00pm – 7:45pm Virtual Live Session

Chair: Emma Cannon, Fertility Mentor & Advisor Leading Specialist: Dr Simone Rofena, Medical Director, Zita West

For this months Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert, Dr Simone Rofena. Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. Dr Rofena will share his expertise on implantation failure. There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Dr Rofena not just on implantation failure but any questions you have for him on your fertility journey.

''Working in medicine, you can live a life focused on the sadder side of human existence, such as death and illness. I’ve always felt incredibly lucky that I chose, some 20 years ago, to focus on fertility and IVF, as I work in the side of medicine that is about life.

Since I started working in IVF, there haven’t been that many major breakthroughs scientifically. Drugs and techniques have improved but there hasn’t been anything radical that has shaken up the industry.'' - Dr Simone Rofena

Wednesday 15th March 7:00pm – 7:45pm Virtual Live Session

Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network Leading Specialist: Professor Charles Kingsland, Clinical Director, CARE Fertility

For this months Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert, Professor Charles Kingsland. Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. Professor Charles Kingsland will share advice and support from his 40 years experience in fertility. There will be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Professor Charles Kingsland.

After fertility training in Cambridge and London in the late 1980s, Charles Kingsland founded the Hewitt Fertility Centre in Liverpool with the aim of providing the highest quality NHS service within the United Kingdom.

Charles has become one of the world’s outstanding fertility specialists. As media spokesman for the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, Charles appears regularly on Television and Radio programmes and is in high demand as a public speaker. A BBC documentary of his work in Liverpool was broadcast in 2014.

Wednesday 1st March, 7:00pm – 7:45pm

Virtual Live Session

Leading Specialist : Stuart Lavery MBBCh MSc MRCOG, Consultant in Reproductive Medicine and Surgery, Honorary Associate Professor UCLH, Aria Women’s Health

For this weeks Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert, Mr Stuart Lavery. Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. Stuart Lavery will share his expertise on preimplantation genetic testing. There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Mr Lavery not just on preimplantation genetic testing but any questions you have for him on your fertility journey.

Stuart Lavery is a leading London-based consultant in gynaecology, reproductive medicine, and surgery at the Hammersmith and Queen Charlotte’s Hospitals in London. Stuart Lavery leads the Preimplantation Genetic Testing team and the Fertility Preservation Service.

Stuart was a founding partner of The Fertility Partnership, the largest provider of assisted conception services in the UK, with eleven clinics.

Join us here: https://www.theivfnetwork.com/ivf-network-members/live

‍ Tuesday 21st February, 7:00pm – 7:45pm

Leading Specialist : Carole Gilling-Smith, CEO, Founder & Medical Director, The Agora Clinic

Chair: Michael Johnson-Ellis, Founder, Two Dads UK

For this months Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert, Carole Gilling-Smith, CEO, Founder & Medical Director, The Agora Clinic. Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. Carole Gilling-Smith will discuss The journey to parenthood for LGBTQ+ people. There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Carole Gilling-Smith on your fertility journey.

For this months Talk to the Expert we are delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert, James Nicopoullos. Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists. James Nicopoullos will share his expertise on Male Infertility. There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Mr Nicopoullos not just on male infertility but any questions you have for him on your fertility journey.

James Nicopoullos joined The Lister Fertility clinic in 2008. He graduated from Guy’s and St Thomas’ Hospitals in 1996, before training predominantly in London. Through this time, he trained under a number of eminent consultants specialising in reproductive medicine that fuelled his interest in the field. He undertook an MD research thesis in “the effect of sperm aneuploidy and DNA fragmentation on ICSI outcome” at Chelsea & Westminster Hospital, where he also completed his subspecialist training in Reproductive Medicine and Surgery.

Talk to the Expert with Dr Lynne Chapman Wednesday 11th January

Chair: Charlotte Gentry, Founder, The IVF Network Leading Specialist: Dr Lynne Chapman, Reproductive Medicine Consultant

For the first of our Talk to the Expert series for 2023 we were delighted to be joined by leading fertility expert, Dr Lynne Chapman. Our Talk to the Expert sessions are a fantastic opportunity to ask your questions directly to our leading fertility specialists.

Dr Chapman will share her expertise on a wide range of fertility topics including IUI, previously failed IVF cycles, low ovarian reserves and recurrent pregnancy loss. There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Dr Chapman on your fertility journey.

Throughout her career, Reproductive Medicine Consultant Dr Lynne Chapman, MBBS BSc (Neuro) MRCOG, has been at the forefront of assisted conception and fertility science.

During that time, she has guided thousands of couples and families on their journey to conception with IVF, egg freezing, sperm and egg donor services, and fertility therapies.

She works in collaboration with leading laboratories and multidisciplinary teams including andrology, surgery, medical and obstetrics experts to provide outstanding personal and clinical care at every step of the journey.

Lynne is also proud to work with some of the UK’s foremost providers of complementary fertility therapies including dieticians, acupuncturists, counsellors and more.

Expert Emma Roberts will share her expertise on EFT ( Emotional Freedom Techniques) and how it can support you on your fertility journey.  There will then be plenty of time for you to ask your questions to Emma.

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    All people challenged in their family building journey should reach their resolution by being empowered by knowledge, supported by community, united by advocacy, and inspired to act. 11 states with good insurance laws for IVF

  4. How to support your loved one during the infertility journey

    Lengthening a woman's fertility may extend her life as well, research finds. "Let them know you love them and are there for them. Learn to listen, support and show trust more than offering ...

  5. After Alabama's ruling, a bill aims to protect national access to IVF : NPR

    Senator Tammy Duckworth has introduced a bill to protect access to IVF. She tells NPR about her own experience with fertility treatments and her attempts to build bipartisan support for her bill.

  6. Analysis

    Republican lawmakers say they support IVF, and polls suggest that their party does too. But the party is about evenly split on the crucial issue of whether embryos are children.

  7. Republicans who say they support IVF backed a bill protecting life 'at

    The House members' vocal support for IVF procedures comes after Trump and Republican candidates in key Senate races sought distance between themselves and the Alabama ruling. The National ...

  8. Republicans under scrutiny for supporting conception bill in wake of

    Republicans who expressed support for in vitro fertilization in the wake of the controversial Alabama Supreme Court ruling are coming under scrutiny for also backing legislation that declares ...

  9. IVF Account Roundup: How to Support Your IVF Journey With Social Media

    Why Turn to Social Media for IVF Support? 2. How To Locate Supportive Infertility Accounts and IVF Journeys. 3. Example Keywords To Find IVF Journey Accounts. 4. The Roundup Winter 2023: IVF Journey Social Media Accounts. Blogs. Instagram. TikTok. YouTube. 5. How I Decided When To Stop Following IVF Journeys. 6. Additional Professional ...

  10. Where To Find Help: 4 Infertility Support Groups

    Infertility Support Group on DailyStrength. If you are beginning your journey with IVF and need support, this group is for you. It is a smaller community of approximately 2,500 members, designed to create a safe, compassionate space to seek and offer guidance. 4. RESOLVE: Male Perspective

  11. 16 Top Encouraging and Supportive IVF Blogs and Forums

    Most women and men who begin an IVF journey hope it'll end one way: with a baby. For some, the journey takes many years. ... About: When You Can't Have Kids, another infertility and failed IVF blog, provides support, encouraging, and insight for people who ended their IVF journey without conception or children. On the homepage, the author ...

  12. Senate Republican blocks bill to protect IVF after Alabama ruling

    Cindy Hyde-Smith (R) called the bill a "vast overreach" after Tammy Duckworth (D) sought unanimous consent, testing Republicans' professed support for IVF.

  13. Navigating the IVF Journey: How to Talk to Your Loved Ones

    Educate Yourself on IVF First. Before talking to your friends and family about IVF, ensure you know the ins and outs of the process. Familiarize yourself with the basics, including the stages of IVF, potential challenges, and the emotional toll it can take. Knowledge empowers you to answer questions about ivf and address concerns effectively ...

  14. Republicans Block IVF Bill as Democrats Sound Alarm

    GOP senators blocked a Democrat-led effort Wednesday to federally protect in-vitro fertilization, downplaying the effects a recent Alabama Supreme Court ruling will have on their electoral odds in ...

  15. The Ultimate Guide to In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)

    Preparing for your embryo transfer is one of the most important processes in your IVF journey. Patients at PFCLA may receive an IVF embryo transfer calendar that resembles the following: ... talking to couples who have successfully undergone IVF or joining a support group for couples going through the same process. Because IVF requires a ...

  16. The IVF Process And Timing Explained

    Support of the uterine lining with hormones to permit and sustain pregnancy; The IVF Process and Timeline. Embarking on the journey of in vitro fertilization (IVF) can be filled with hope and anticipation, yet it's important to acknowledge that every couple's path to parenthood is unique. ... Deciding to embark on an IVF journey is a ...

  17. Rep. Wild Announces New Wave of Support for IVF Protections, Calls for

    Today, Congresswoman Susan Wild joined members of the Democratic Women's Caucus (DWC) to call on Congress to pass the Access to Family Building Act, which would protect in-vitro fertilization (IVF) access nationwide. This comes on the heels of the Alabama State Supreme Court decision to classify frozen embryos as "children," a ruling that has left the future of IVF in the state uncertain.

  18. thrIVF

    I'll be your infertility/IVF journey bestie, guiding and mentoring you every step of the way, and providing a safe space for you to share your thoughts, feelings, ... With my guidance and support, you'll have an infertility/IVF journey bestie by your side that gets it, and the tools you need to navigate this journey with confidence, so you can ...

  19. 'We did it in cattle': Alabama Republicans' bungled response to IVF

    'It could end my journey' ... they turned heel, speaking out in support of IVF. Alabama's attorney general promised not to prosecute IVF clinics or patients, while the former president ...

  20. Emotions when going through an IVF journey

    The fertility journey and the IVF journey are as much an emotional journey as a physical one, and taking care of your emotions is vital. ... managing the rigors of treatment without the support of a partner, while at the same time coming to terms with the idea you are creating your family alone, and not within the relationship you wanted. ...

  21. The IVF Journey and Navigating Loss Support Group

    The IVF Journey and Navigating Loss Support Group. This peer-led support group offers a safe space for individuals to share their IVF journey at all stages and navigating varying forms of loss. Date & Time: Group meets the second Monday of every month from 6:30-8:00PM PST.

  22. 35 Words of Encouragement for Someone Going Through IVF

    10. I'm here for you and will support you in any way I can. 11. "Little" dreams become big accomplishments. Your dream child is on its way. All you have to do is hold on to optimism. 12. Love is patient, love is hopeful. Allow that love for your future child to carry you through.

  23. The IVF Journey: 4 Women's Experiences With IVF Treatment

    It's important to remember that you're not alone during your IVF journey. In fact, there's about 4 million families going through the exact same thing. Finding a support group can help you get through the process. While there are in-person groups all over the country, there's also robust virtual communities you can join.

  24. Republicans urge candidates to back IVF in wake of Alabama ruling

    Senate Republicans' campaign arm is counseling candidates to "clearly and concisely reject" any efforts to restrict access to in-vitro fertilization (IVF) treatments days after an Alabama court ...

  25. GOP Politicians Are Getting Called Out for IVF Support/access Hypocrisy

    The spokesperson also mentioned Mace's previous support of House Resolution 345, "affirming the federal duty to ensure unhindered access to infertility services for all."

  26. 5 Ways to Support Someone Going Through IVF

    Fertility struggles are a daunting journey! Although it may be a rollercoaster of emotions it is not a journey that you need to go through on your own. We asked former and current fertility treatment patients what they think equals great help or support during the process and this article covers some tips based on what we learned from them, and general pointers for supporting a friend, family ...

  27. The IVF Journey

    A single IVF cycle can range from $15,000 to $30,000, depending on the patient's individual needs. While these numbers are intimidating, both Dr. Rush and Dr. Kashani say there are financial assistance resources to consider. "There are many grants available that can be used towards treatment," claims Dr. Kashani.

  28. Navigating the IVF Journey: How Male Support Can Help

    Emotional support from male partners is essential throughout the IVF process. Your presence, understanding, and empathy can provide a much-needed source of comfort and reassurance to your partner. Be available to listen, offer encouragement, and validate her emotions. Being a supportive and compassionate figure will help your partner feel more ...

  29. The IVF Network

    The world of IVF can seem like a minefield, but we believe that with the right knowledge and support you will be better equipped to make the right decisions for your fertility journey. This network has been created for you by IVF & fertility experts to support you on this very special path to parenthood. We're in this together.

  30. Emotional Support on Your IVF Journey

    You will be connected with an infertility support group in your area by simply entering your zip code. Carrie Van Steen, of Attain Fertility, says Resolve was a lifeline for her when going through her own IVF journey. If there isn't a local group already formed, approach your fertility provider and ask them to start one. Don't be afraid to ...